^ That's exactly what happened with my uncle. Unless you're rolling in money, it's hard to fight the system. Thanks to that, he goes into a depression every Father's Day. By the time he finally was able to get in contact with his daughter, her mother had poisoned her mind so much that it had basically destroyed any chance of a relationship. She had moved her over many state lines, and didn't give her the option of calling her dad until she was roughly 15 years old. (So ... 10+ years after the divorce)