On reddit I got into a discussion because everyone said this dude dad was a pos for beating his kid and breaking his arm. Well turns out the kids brother set fire to ten hectares and he took the blame from his younger brother oh and the arm breaking was because he ran away so dad grabbed him by the arm so he would have to deal with the consequences of his "action".
Did he exaggerate sure but how emotional would any sane person be if your kid set a fire that could of destroyed your home killed his siblings and endangered your neighbors life and possessions. Got downvoted into oblivion for pointing out he was justified but that's what speaking the truth gets you over there.
Lots of people saying they'd have sat their child down to explain what was wrong, ground them etc. No one appreciated the gravity of the action oh and many I hope you don't have kids you'll be a shitty parent for agreeing kids should expect reaction to action
On reddit I got into a discussion because everyone said this dude dad was a pos for beating his kid and breaking his arm. Well turns out the kids brother set fire to ten hectares and he took the blame from his younger brother oh and the arm breaking was because he ran away so dad grabbed him by the arm so he would have to deal with the consequences of his "action".
Did he exaggerate sure but how emotional would any sane person be if your kid set a fire that could of destroyed your home killed his siblings and endangered your neighbors life and possessions. Got downvoted into oblivion for pointing out he was justified but that's what speaking the truth gets you over there.
Lots of people saying they'd have sat their child down to explain what was wrong, ground them etc. No one appreciated the gravity of the action oh and many I hope you don't have kids you'll be a shitty parent for agreeing kids should expect reaction to action
My ex said I needed to be more of a friend to her son.
I told her, he has plenty of friends, what he needs is a parent.
1000% this
It's the exact same thing as leading people. You're not meant to be friends with your children. You're supposed to be their parents.