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SMEOwner -44 points ago +7 / -51

Lmao that is such nonsense nobody likes fucking virgins. What you want is a woman that knows what she’s doing but doesn’t give it up easy

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meals23 43 points ago +45 / -2

the more partners a woman has the more her ability to pair bond becomes obliterated

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chelthing 16 points ago +17 / -1

THANK YOU. Not enough people mention this.

I made the mistake of having premarital sex and prayed to loosen each bond that was made from it.

I wish I had saved myself for my husband, but I unfortunately had a liberal mindset back then.

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meals23 10 points ago +11 / -1

I can imagine that it must have been very difficult when you had the red pill realization

It's different for men and women in terms of what it is we realize, but we each have similar feelings of devastation when we realize just what kind of damage we had been doing to ourselves.

Believe me I'm still recovering from simple mistakes I made just a few years ago in my early 20s. Every day I pray for God's wisdom and strength to help me recover. We cannot go back and correct the mistakes of our past, just try to live better now and help others learn from our mistakes. I'm sure if you and your husband are blessed with a daughter you will try to teach her to avoid your mistakes. I know if I am blessed with a son that I will do just the same.

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M25WhiteFeather 5 points ago +5 / -0

Trust also. I've been with women and friends who went this way. Each failed relationship after the other they lose trust in men and themselves.

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GodfreydeBullion 1 point ago +1 / -0

The same chemical reaction that bonds people together that goes off in your brain with a sexual partner is the same reaction that a mother and baby have when they look at each other.

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SMEOwner -20 points ago +2 / -22

Lmao that’s so stupid. I’m not advocating for sluts, but a virgin? Haha

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deathbymonty 21 points ago +22 / -1

Wrong, the only people who believe that are people who don’t want to hear that they made major mistakes by sleeping around, which they did.

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SMEOwner -13 points ago +3 / -16

Or maybe it’s people who know having had sex before marriage isn’t the end of the world. Nobody wants to fuck a Virgin. You purists are the same as the slut crowd. All or nothing. People should Have a healthy normal life where you probably didn’t marry your high school sweetheart and didn’t sleep with the entire school either

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deathbymonty 0 points ago +1 / -1

You don’t have a clue what you’re talking about. Want to know about a real epidemic? How about the STD epidemic that grows every year without getting any press in the MSM? Having sex before marriage is not the end of the world, but by any measurable standard it’s a bad idea.

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lilree 10 points ago +12 / -2

I met my girl on tinder where she was slammed by the Jackson Fifty - and that's a good thing! -SMEOwner

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SMEOwner -14 points ago +1 / -15

That’s kinda gross but you do you

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SMEOwner -3 points ago +2 / -5

Bonding is a spiritual process. You can bond with other people regardless of whether it was the first time.

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GodfreydeBullion 1 point ago +1 / -0

Haha! Perfect.

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SMEOwner -3 points ago +2 / -5

No thanks, happily married for 20 years. Neither of us were virgins. Proposing that’s what men want is bull, and equating that to me wanting a nicotine addict just shows the argument is very weak