My response to that argument was always "Oh, no.... I don't recommend love as a reason to get married AT ALL." It's like literally the worst reason if you think about it.
because very, very few people understand that men and women feel love in different ways, but the love that they can feel for one another is no less powerful, it just has a different perspective and meaning
because of Marxist mindrot working over the last few generations to destroy this millennia old knowledge, many people find themselves in extremely unhappy and unfulfilling relationships because they don't understand that what they're trying to find doesn't exist anywhere but inside their head.
My response to that argument was always "Oh, no.... I don't recommend love as a reason to get married AT ALL." It's like literally the worst reason if you think about it.
Can confirm. Real love doesn't found a marriage but is the fruit a series of hard choices.
Not to mention the modern concept of love is basically lust+expectations and has nothing to do with genuine loyalty, respect, compassion, etc.
because very, very few people understand that men and women feel love in different ways, but the love that they can feel for one another is no less powerful, it just has a different perspective and meaning
because of Marxist mindrot working over the last few generations to destroy this millennia old knowledge, many people find themselves in extremely unhappy and unfulfilling relationships because they don't understand that what they're trying to find doesn't exist anywhere but inside their head.
My answer is "Marriage ain't about you".
Exactly. But you have to start with the foundation that it isn't all just about the feelz. Then they can begin to comprehend what it really is about.