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DignityDude 15 points ago +22 / -7

You are probably wasting your time. If you are going to raise another man’s kid, then that’s on you. However, you are more than capable of landing a woman who is hotter and doesn’t have any children.

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MAGAMillenial 16 points ago +19 / -3

Or they can also have kids and he can help provide a stable life for his partners child who could be lacking a father due to a multitude of reasons....

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Canapeder 3 points ago +8 / -5

Not to say there aren't good reasons for someone being a single parent. But what is the %? I'd say the vast majority of single parents is due to bad choices of the single parent. People make mistakes, sure. But let's not ignore the majority may not deserve a second chance or for someone else to take on the burden of taking care of a child that isn't theirs.

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SwanS0ng 9 points ago +12 / -3

Man, is it gonna blow your mind when you learn about adoption and foster care. Being a parent is a privilege, not a burden.

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Canapeder 4 points ago +7 / -3

It isn't the same as adoption. The father can't suddenly come into your life wanting partial custody or visitation rights to your step-child. The father can't suddenly influence the child or find ways to make life more difficult for you and your loved one.

I want children myself. I know they aren't a burden. Personally I wouldn't want to take a chance with a woman that already showed she wasn't careful enough to not have a child with someone she should not have.

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SpaceForceMilitia 0 points ago +5 / -5

If it was truly a privilege, we would be devoid of half the issues on this subject.

Having kids is a likely biological outcome of copulation. How you raise or tend that child will make you feel as if it is a burden or privilege depending on how you take that new responsibility.

Id ay kids are a responsibility, and like with any such, the outcome hinges on how you fufill it.

Someone not responsible enough to begin that responsibility responsibly, is a risky bet to take on.

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MAGAMillenial 1 point ago +1 / -0

That is fair, I guess it was the way it was stated as a blanket statement that bothered me most.

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DignityDude 20 points ago +25 / -5

Don’t date in your age range then. I’m 37 and recently married an early 20s lady who is based as can be, and her goals are significantly trad. She’s also the hottest that I’ve dated in a while. In this case, I’m the one with two kids and she only has one on the way (mine).

Most men have the same issue you have, if I may be so bold. The only thing stopping you from dating women as young and as hot as you want is your brain. You can change your mindset and get whatever you want. You are the prize in any relationship, not the woman.

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DignityDude 9 points ago +10 / -1

Rollo Tomassi for the knowledge. Based Zeus for the technique.

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SouthernDad 9 points ago +10 / -1

anything greater than a 10 year difference its hard to relate unless you're immature. In which case good on you for peter panning it and scoring a hard body 20 y/o.

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Tellguy 3 points ago +3 / -0

Maybe look at a female fertility chart, mate.

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DignityDude 1 point ago +1 / -0

Women are extremely moldable. They will meet your expectations if you set them. The hardest part is indeed finding a truly smart one, but you’ll be able to tell with enough experience.

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King6of6the6retards 4 points ago +7 / -3

Get an iroc-z and hang out near high schools.

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Southern_Belle 9 points ago +9 / -0

Ew.

Creepy.

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King6of6the6retards 6 points ago +7 / -1

Maybe. Hold judgement until you glimpse the gilded glint of gold chain through u/nomac's chest hair. The fine polyester shirt really adds to the quality of the comb over.

Sploosh!

Edit: the alliteration paints a better picture if we go "glimpse the golden glint of gilded chain" and it opens the door to some form of the word glow.