posted ago by DCdeplorable
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I was with a nice, but controlling, self-important SJW for 7 years. Life moved fast, and we were too young to make a real commitment. Then in 2016 she soured on me, my love for POTUS, and my questioning of leftist ideology. I bounced back quick with a great catholic girl, and today, after 3 years of committed devotion, we made it official. Let's make families great again!
Congrats, but protip; you don't need to talk about the ex SJW, especially in reference to your engagement. Just focus on the love of your life
Yeah i dont talk about it IRL, just on here to give some context for how close i was to probably being miserable for 10 years and ending up divorced with suicidal trans children. Leftism is mental illness and i found out just in time
You're right, and that bit of context can prove inspirational and enlightening in this venue of Winning.
Procreation is in the top 3 drives for humans. If you're unlucky the subconscious will use you as a means to an end, not caring about your quality of life.
It should, but I've heard one weird theory that you choose based on the smell of their immune system.
Joe, is that you? sorry, you just hung it out there over the plate.
"Immune system", is that what we're calling it now? Heh.
I've heard that too, but I think it was the pheromones and creating a genetic combination for your offspring to have a good immune system. Interesting if true
I briefly dated a girl from Mongolia and oh boy what an unforgettable smell she got! It was an incredibly strong and unique body odor.
But women will hold their commie inside and only let it come out around their woke friends. Then one day she's telling your 6yo son all about "guyliner".
Marbles!!!?
I'm sure they have other hobbies and interests in common. But it would be very very difficult to maintain a longterm relationship with someone who has the opposite world view as you. Good pussy or not. I think it's a healthy sign, because it shows how people are willing to work at a marriage and make it better. No marriage is great at the beginning. They all require years of work on each other.
But he found out that he was bailing a doomed ship, and got out before marriage. Good call. OP is a smart fucker.
Tbf, any guy that talks about communism instantly becomes sexually repugnant.
It's good to not reduce people down to just their political beliefs. It's usually a VERY small part of who they are as a person, and has a lot to do with their temperament.
That being said, SJW types tend (TEND) to be in a very different category by the nature of the ideology that forces them into those one-dimensional NPC mindsets we all deal with.
Good on OP for recognizing it and leaving that behind. A lot of times that's what the other person needs to experience to wake up for themselves.
Countin those blessings, baby!
I'm glad you mentioned it. I think it will be a big inspiration for many pedes.
Exactly where you come from does not define where you are going.
Heck, in 2016 we all dodged a bullet.
Not all of us... His name is Seth Rich.
Ouch!
Kek
Yippee!!! I have a similar story. I’m never married, unexpectedly met the girl of my dream last October, proposed in Dec, Before Covid she have the news, baby on the way Nov :) Congrats
Maga year, only amazing babies this year !!!
May God bless you and you new family. Now make a pile of little patriots like the future of our nation depends on it.
Gotta find a large patch of land with a good internet connection, and ill be living like mel gibson in the patriot.
Sounds incredible friend.
It's a good plan.
I’m working on a very similar plan now. Land and big family sound so nice. Congratulations!
Never to early to get started, but it can DEFINITELY get too late.
I had a similar experience. Married for 8 years (13 yr total relationship, 2 kids) Because of her work situation she became friends with a bunch of sjw people and turned on me during the 2016 election. She left me at the end of 2018. Six months later I met my MAGA soulmate / the love of my life. We got married five months later and we have a baby coming next month.
Ludicrous speed on that rebound! I'm happy you found your happiness, fren
So many people had weddings canceled this year. I'm glad we fast-tracked that shit.
Did you keep the kids or did she?
I think you already know the answer to that question.
Nope. I thought she got both considering how the justice system is.
50/50 doesn't mean we each got one kid. She sees them half the time and I see them half the time. It's not contentious
50/50
I'm sorry for your loss, but hopefully the other comes around without going through a traumatic experience.
In before all the cucks cry about how they got divorced and that men don't need women to live a happy life (I'm not saying that you can't live a happy single life)
Face it. You guys married the wrong woman. (Not the right woman)
Congrats!
this makes me smile
congratulations
may God bless your union!
Congrats.
I married a based catholic woman myself. Couldnt be happier.
There are moments where we argue over dumb shit, but over all experience has been amazing. She is super loyal, and is an amazing mother to our daughter.
This is my second marriage. First wife was a major lefty who cheated every chance she got. Got married too young. Learned from my mistake. Its a good thing we didnt have children because it made the divorce so smooth.
Good job!
Congrats now have 6 kids to offset all the illegals
Crank them out!!
Why stop at only 6?
Congrats!
I once had a girlfriend that REE'd about conservatives for me. Didn't last long.
It always makes me happy to see these types of posts here. This is one of the last bastions on the internet of celebrating the family.
It looks like fate has smiled on you, Fren! Enjoy the new rest of your life!
Churches or church related events are a good place to look. Meet up groups for whatever hobbies your into are great ways to socialize too. Got into motorcycles recently and do group rides with other bikers. Lots of women in the group ;)
Great advice. I actually am active in meet up groups and thats how i met my girl. Not even as a member of the same group, but bc a member of my group worked at a bar with a karaoke night, and was friends with her, and she was always at karaoke night. Such a random string of coincidences, but thats how you do it - not with a dating app, but with living a rich life and being open to new experiences. When you're living as much life as you can, you'll increase yoir chances for serendipity.
Also... sometimes you gotta get drunk and kiss a really hot girl you think was flirting with you all night (and oh god i hope you're reading it right!)... but you might end up being accused of sexual assault. Or planning a wedding. Dating is hard lol.
A hero takes the next step in his epic journey!
May God bless you with many healthy, happy, vaccine-free kids! Multiply and replenish!
Look into a great midwife, you have so many options outside of the leftist prison cells! I figure alternative everything is worth every cost of avoiding leftist indoctrinated kids.
Happy marriage-to-be!
Wow, congratulations! So your love for PDJT brought you to the love of your life. What CAN'T Trump do?! 😉 🇺🇸
Lose. He's incapable of losing ;)
Excellent point!
Aww, congrats, pede. Great news. Post pictures of the wedding when you get there. And of course, any baby pedes to follow. :D (I know I'm moving you along fast here, but that's how life works.) Congrats to you and the nice Catholic girl. :o)
Make God and the Sacraments the center of your marriage and things will be amazing. I recommend going through a RCIA program if you aren't already Catholic.
Yeah we'll figure that one out lol. I was raised Lutheran, but the grandparents who raised me in that church are all dead, and my parents aren't so religious. Her family is very catholic, and that's fine with me. I don't believe everything the Catholic church says, but i was raised to believe that anywhere people come together to praise God, then God is with them. I find some of the pageantry silly, but i also used to think praising a God was silly...
Really this is even more general - i might think i know whats what one day, then realize that a tradition i had previously written off, was actually 100% spot on.
The Church, aka the Bride of Christ, is perfect. It's the people in it and who run it who are not. But very true, there are far too many "Catholics" who use it as a crutch to gain sympathy or make people think they're righteous when they're not.
Christ be with you!
Almost the same story here, married her last December, catholic girls are super based I got lucky.
Congratulations! May your future be bright with many children. Start a garden with your fiance as it is a wonderful thing to do. It will grow with you and your family and provide the nutrition our processed food is void of. Also, the process is amazing, fun and tasty.
Great suggestion. My grandmother gave me a green thumb, but i gotta get out of the city, get some land. Edit: we're practicing with succulents at least, lol
You can grow anywhere you live. Patio garden, indoor containers, etc. We are on earth to toil and grow. Also, it is delicious.
Praise Kek For happy unions
Have children.
Congratulations Pede and welcome to a wonderful institution!!
I dodged a similar bullet circa 2003 through 2005 and ended up finding the mother of my children circa 2006 and married in 2007. Been happily together ever since with 4 great kids. I've always said that deep down every man knows whether he wants to marry someone or not. We sometimes stay with crazy because we are comfortable but doesn't always mean we are happy. I met my wife and in a matter of days I knew I wanted to marry her but it took time to convince her of that fact. We were married roughly 3 months after we started dating and have been together well over a decade.
Thank God for girls like her.
Catholic women are the best, been married to one for four years. Their value system is way better than average.
Congratulations mate. When you are with someone who just 'gets you' and supports you to be yourself, great things happen. Wishing you both all.the best.
Congrats! Don't wait, have baby pedes early and often
CONGRATULATIONS!!
Mazel Tov!
Congratulations! May you have a wonderful, happy, child-filled, and long marriage! Sounds like the two of you will make a great family!
Congrats! I hope one day I'll find a man who values family as much as me
Happy for you, Pede.
Go make some Pede babies.
Don't die alone like me.
Crank out some babies asap. The future of America depends on them.
<3 HUGs and Love for you, my dear fren - I prayed you would find love <3
Congratulations! Many blessings to both of you. Hubs and I are both Catholic and have been going strong for 30 years. Our love of God and our conservative values have seen us through good times and bad, mostly good. Best to both of you ❤️🇺🇸
Congrats pede.
Congrats! Live for the future, not the past.
Aww, congratulations! May you both have many strong and loving years together - and have several sweet little pedelettes.
congratulations, very uplifting news!