I said in another one of my posts in a response to you that this problem has been around for centuries, one of Augustus Caesar's most ambitious domestic policies was to try and incentivize more Roman men to have babies with Roman women because Roman men were fed up with their behavior and kept marrying foreign brides.

If one of the greatest men who has ever lived couldn't figure this shit out then I highly doubt the answer is going to be found from a pack of modern day simps.