when did i say "even though"? when did i talk about "availability"? if i say a woman "can get my dick", (and yes that is what "she can get it" basically means i'll admit that) i'm not saying "i will give her my dick whether she wants it or not". i'm just saying that i find her attractive and if she wanted to, "she could get it". there are countless numbers of women who fall into that category. the vast majority of them would have no interest in me. by expressing my interest in them, even though they have no interest in me, i am not at the same time expressing a desire to violate them in any way. your argument basically boils down to: expressing interest in a woman is an admission of a desire to commit sexual violence against her. I think that's a ridiculous argument, but if that's the way you see it, hey, it's a free country.