Been a long time lurker, but something's happened that's made me feel the need to reach out, and this seems the only place to do it. A friend I've had for over sixteen years (girlfriend for four) has suddenly decided to call it quits. She hasn't said that in so many words, but she barely talks to me anymore and has an air of dismissiveness and contempt anytime I tell her anything about me (and I generally avoid politics). Apparently, I said something over a year ago, something innocuous but political that I don't even remember (I think I disagreed with her about there being a patriarchy; that's all I can think of) that she's been brooding on for all that time, even though she couldn't remember what was said, either. But for over a year, on the rare occasions I talk to her, she's always been tense and condescending, which is not like her. And the last time we talked, she finally mentioned it, adding, "...it makes me think you still support Trump," then went into a typical leftist diatribe.
Unfortunately, she went back to school to get her degree, and it shows how brainwashed she's become. It hurts to see it, and I hate that she would let something so small ruin something we've built for so long, especially since we've been through real rough patches together (I stood by her during her divorce, I've always tried to be there when she's had manic episodes, since she's bipolar, etc).
She's said we'll keep talking and all the empty promises of seeing each other again and blah, blah, blah, but I can just sense that the relationship has disintegrated and probably will never heal.
Anyway, I'm sorry to rant, and I know I'm not even close to being the only one this has happened to, but I needed to tell someone, and I see lots of love on this site every day. But I'll never apologize for supporting Trump, for loving the country, or for believing what I believe, even if it has heavy costs with it. Love you, pedes.
He dodged an A-bomb.
Well said. I would add to OP, always cherish the good times that’s totally normal. Nothing lasts forever. So best thing is to move on and continue to grow and MAGA!!!!!!
Man why are all the leftists bipolar and shit?
Godspeed.
Maybe you have to be bipolar and shit to be a leftist.
Especially the shit part.
I imagine there is an assembly line somewhere.
If your friend left you in the dirt over something so trivial... they were never a friend.
P.S. You have millions of friends here. ;)
BULLET. DODGED.
Scrape that shit off your shoes and move on I mean that in the nicest possible way. It sounds like you dodged a bullet
You are better off without crazy women in your life that would blow you off because you don't believe in the mythical patriarchy.
Darkness doesn't like light and lies don't like truth.
At some level these people know that we they believe is a lie and that they believe it mostly out of a weird herd (in group) instinct. Because of this, they'll often eventually have to distance themselves from others who speak out against their cult beliefs in order to maintain a safe place where they can still feel morally superior and hidden from facing reality.
You’ve got fam here and all the support in the world. There is a lady Pede out there that will give you the best life ever. Keep your head up, love God, and he will provide at the least expecting moment.
I know it hurts now, but hopefully soon you'll realize how good it feels to actually be free of that toxic person. Because friend or not, she was toxic and that's not good for your own health. Take care of yourself.
I'm so sorry someone treated you like that. You're on the right side of history just remember that, and she chose a dark path
Hey, you didn't lose them, they lost you. You were the rational one in that friendship.
This.
Atleaat you don't have a kid with her- bounce homie. Life's too short to waste on liberals/commies.
There is no good advice here. But you will find someone new that better fits who you actually are. Let it go, let her go.
It’s ok to feel sad, fren. Take care of yourself and keep busy doing things that are good for you.
Typical leftism. Tearing great things down
Stop fucking apologizing and quit caring what this fucking hag thinks. This entire scenario sounds like a very beta relationship. Fuck her. You should have cleaned her off of your plate years ago. Start finding like minded people to create real friendships with.
So you met my Ex ?
“but hopefully got your dick wet a few times”...thanks for a great laugh
This is advice number one. I've been married 29 years. If you don't have these conversations early folks, it's too late.
You gotta know if you are eating french fries with a crazy person or the ONE. Talk about serious things. Bring them up talk about your family, why you liked this person why you hate that person etc... talk about everything...
perhaps its for the best . must be difficult thou. good luck
stay strong and focus on improving your situation and happiness. You are a magnificent mother fucker and master of your shit.
Let her know the door is always open, .... and that you still like Trump.
No. Drop her and move on. Clean cut.
No, please!
People like that -- it's best to go no contact.
Anyone who believes their politics should be forced upon their friends and family “or else” is typical leftist behavior. If she’s willing to sacrifice your friendship because you didn’t the vote way she approves, then you’re better off without her.
Wish her peace and move on.
Sounds like She fucked Him...over
Give less shits tbh.
I mean I’ve had “friends” who I don’t have anymore but at the end of the day we all die.
Move on and have more concern over current or potential friendships as opposed to mourning over anything that happened more than two minutes ago.
My two cents.
man fuck this isn't serious. I thought someone died. Good riddance to the dumb bitch
I thought someone had died, too. Fuck. It was just a break-up.
So, I'm 35 and still single...and the reason is that I want perfect compatibility.
I hear horror stories of couples who are clearly not very compatible, getting married, having kids, getting divorced, and the husband paying half his salary to her afterwards.
Sorry you lost a friend, but clearly you two weren't compatible. Things like that happen in life. You should see that things ending is great because there can be issues down the line. I'm not sure of your romantic interest in her based on your post, but it sounds like you are both free at the moment and have had a previous relationship. So that's why I suspect you are hurting so much.
You'll find new friends. It's tough ending a relationship but more than likely 10 years from now you'll catch up with her again and think "What the hell did she do with her life?!" and you should be glad you didn't stick around to go down that path as well.
I hope you find someone. You seem like a great guy. Don't wait too long.
Good riddance.
Bipolar people used to be called manic-depressives and need to take medicine,to be normal. Better off without them in your life. Normal people are hard enough to deal with.
You may have been drawn to her because of her problems and your compassion and wanting to help. Fuck that shit. Get a stong woman, an equal partner, one who can carry you if need be (psychologically, financially, whatever). You deserve better. Plenty of fish in the sea. Be strong, man.
Sorry about your fucking idiot of a friend.
Send her some red pill vids its your last chance.
My friend you will be ok. I know it's hard to walk away from that long of a friendship. But once you know the truth of things you cant go back to the lie. She may one day realize you are right, but if not you are still right. And 6 months from now you will realize that you are better off without toxic people in your life.
Sounds like she used him as a beta orbiter and knows she's a shitty person. He's worn out his usefulness and this is how she pushes him away. I guarantee she was and is getting plowed on the side. Probably by multiple guys. She most likely claims she's bisexual but is only with multiple men. My advice would be: Be glad she's gone and go be the best you.
Must have similar values.
Relationships will not work otherwise.
Hang in there..it sucks right now but it will get better. Chin up and MAGA on