I was going through an airman's course for being a newbie at my base. During this orientation, I met this cute girl and we started talking. One thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. The next day, me being a happy guy for obvious reasons, went down to her dorm room to see if she wanted to grab breakfast at the chowhall. I knocked a couple times and there was no answer. Figured she was gone, so I left and went to get breakfast.
On my way back to my room, I get a text message from her saying good morning. I replied back and mentioned I swung by her room earlier to see if she wanted to get breakfast. She said she knew and was actually in her room when I knocked on the door. So I asked her why she didn't answer and if she was ok.
The next part I'll never forget.
She started texting me to never come by her dorm ever again and that she had notified her supervisor that I was an aggressive male because I came to her room in the morning. Next thing I know, I'm getting a call from my supervisor saying her supervisor contacted him and told him that I was showing signs of being a potential rapist. Next thing I know, SECURITY FORCES were at my door and they wanted to ask me a couple questions.
If it wasn't for the camera footage they had of me, I would have been in jail. Luckily, the footage showed me leaving my room, doing laundry, going downstairs, knocking on the door, then leaving to get breakfast. There was no evidence to suggest anything else was happening. And the girl even admitted that we had consentual sex the night before.
After that experience, I vowed to NEVER get involved with a co-worker from anyplace I work.
the urge to bang a coworker is sometimes overwhelming I just have to tell you.
Can't say I agree with you... Of course 100% of my coworkers are other men. And being a Proud Straight Man, it's not my thing.
I did it once, and I'll NEVER DO IT AGAIN.
This happened to me while I was in the military.
Story time.
I was going through an airman's course for being a newbie at my base. During this orientation, I met this cute girl and we started talking. One thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. The next day, me being a happy guy for obvious reasons, went down to her dorm room to see if she wanted to grab breakfast at the chowhall. I knocked a couple times and there was no answer. Figured she was gone, so I left and went to get breakfast.
On my way back to my room, I get a text message from her saying good morning. I replied back and mentioned I swung by her room earlier to see if she wanted to get breakfast. She said she knew and was actually in her room when I knocked on the door. So I asked her why she didn't answer and if she was ok.
The next part I'll never forget.
She started texting me to never come by her dorm ever again and that she had notified her supervisor that I was an aggressive male because I came to her room in the morning. Next thing I know, I'm getting a call from my supervisor saying her supervisor contacted him and told him that I was showing signs of being a potential rapist. Next thing I know, SECURITY FORCES were at my door and they wanted to ask me a couple questions.
If it wasn't for the camera footage they had of me, I would have been in jail. Luckily, the footage showed me leaving my room, doing laundry, going downstairs, knocking on the door, then leaving to get breakfast. There was no evidence to suggest anything else was happening. And the girl even admitted that we had consentual sex the night before.
After that experience, I vowed to NEVER get involved with a co-worker from anyplace I work.
These dynamics always exist in relationships in the workplace.
Not a good idea to bring this stuff anywhere near your work.