Part of this is on guys too. Stop having sex with easy roasties who you are not willing to marry and raise kids with. If you do this then women will start to behave differently as well.
The thot patrol thing is one of the most important memes ever because it tells women that we don’t actually like it when you are a whore.
men and women experience a thing called pair bonding, when you have sex with another person your brain releases hormones that make you feel really good being with that person and having sex with just that person
it's less pronounced in men than it is in women, and it also varies in strength on an individual basis, but it's still there, and the more people you have sex with the more those brain chemicals start to dull until eventually you have completely obliterated your ability to pair bond.
I mean human beings are more than just a collection of chemicals, we have the capability to do anything we want to. I'm just talking about a chemical reaction that occurs in your brain, similar to how people who are addicted to narcotics need stronger and stronger doses to feel the same high
I also said that it's less pronounced in men than it is in women
The thot patrol thing is one of the most important memes ever because it tells women that we don’t actually like it when you are a whore.
Quoted because it's that important.
This is the part we need to blastvertise. Teach girls something like this:
"...no man respects a slut. Yeah, dudes will bang you right up until someone prettier comes along. Is that what you want, to be used and disposed of like a sperm-rag? No? Then get your self-respect and make him work his ass off for it, preferably with a ring. Do it now, while you're young and pretty, so you can get your pick, and not have to settle."
And yes, I have a daughter. And yes, she got a very similar speech. She and her husband are happily married, and have been for about 5 years now.
Sex is totally a pleasurable thing, and both parties should get enjoyment out of that, but you conflate pleasure and casual sex, as if that jolt of dopamine were the only goal.
Casual sex is disposable. It actually removes the biggest component of pleasure from the act (the complete giving of oneself to the other, and the gift of the other person giving completely of him/herself to you.) Reducing sex to something that you just go get like it were a tub of ice cream cheapens the whole experience, and can lead towards some rather nasty things: self-abuse, adultery, and psychological burnout.
I would strongly suggest that you read "Theology of The Body" by John Paul II. In it, you will find a far more thorough explanation of the beauty of sex, and why it should remain within marriage.
One last bit, like it or lump it, women, unlike men, have an expiration date and a relatively limited window of opportunity in life. They also are more psychologically victimized by casual sex than men are, because men are hard-wired for casual polygamy, whereas women are hard-wired for monogamy.
(Women) are more psychologically victimized by casual sex than men are, because men are hard-wired for casual polygamy, whereas women are hard-wired for monogamy.
This. Women are wired to need their mate to STAY. That goes back to the caveman days. If he pumps and dumps, she could be left alone with a baby to raise - and that would have been a death sentence for both of them, with no caveman to hunt meat for them and protect them.
Some women can do casual sex for a while, but then the repeated rejections take their toll and she becomes unable to handle it when he leaves. Plenty of women have been labeled as "crazy" when the real problem is that the casual sex has started to feel real, real bad.
Even in casual sex you can completely give yourself to the other person. It's like living a brief fantasy where instead of being alone, for that moment you have a partner.
I don't know if you've ever had casual sex; and I'm talking about the good kind: a date or few dates and conversation to get to know each other. Or fuck buddies. In these cases you do feel an intimate and personal connection.
The only thing that lacks is the commitment to spend the rest of your life with her.
It's a bit like career choices: some people prefer to be a permanent employee, others prefer being an independent contractor.
Speaking of that dumb shit, when did people start unironically saying "sex worker"? We already have a formal term for whores, sluts, hoes etc it's called prostitute.
That is why I love the thot patrol thing. Feminists were successful in convincing normies that “slut shaming” is not okay. Thot patrol is slut shaming, but doing it in a more persuasive way that you can’t really defend against. Now it’s not about them being a slut, but about protecting my bro’s from sluts. It has an even greater shaming effect. It has the persuasion level that is necessary to change behavior across an entire culture.
I’ve got some attractive exes that I’m still friends with. Whenever they send my pictures of themselves posing or in bikinis I don’t even respond.
The narcissism and thot mentality are so obnoxious. Unsolicited selfies are the female equivalent of a dick pic.
There’s a million way hotter chicks splashing their bodies over all media endlessly. You don’t compare to them. All you have is personality at this point and it’s be way cooler to find an interesting person than just another half naked woman desperate for attention.
Part of this is on guys too. Stop having sex with easy roasties who you are not willing to marry and raise kids with. If you do this then women will start to behave differently as well.
The thot patrol thing is one of the most important memes ever because it tells women that we don’t actually like it when you are a whore.
People probably think I'm weird but I always wanted to wait for marriage and to this day my wife is the only woman I've slept with.
it's not weird pede it's admirable
men and women experience a thing called pair bonding, when you have sex with another person your brain releases hormones that make you feel really good being with that person and having sex with just that person
it's less pronounced in men than it is in women, and it also varies in strength on an individual basis, but it's still there, and the more people you have sex with the more those brain chemicals start to dull until eventually you have completely obliterated your ability to pair bond.
Bullshit.
If you find the right person for you I'll assure you you'll feel the bond even if you've banged lots of sluts beforehand.
On the other hand, if you're virgin or inexperienced when you meet the one you might blow it.
A man needs to be sexually experienced.
I mean human beings are more than just a collection of chemicals, we have the capability to do anything we want to. I'm just talking about a chemical reaction that occurs in your brain, similar to how people who are addicted to narcotics need stronger and stronger doses to feel the same high
I also said that it's less pronounced in men than it is in women
You have got to be shitting me.
You set up a Catch-22 there - a man cannot have sex unless he's already had sex? Seriously?
You won't "blow it" if you've found "the one" - unless you only learned about sex from porn, that's not how sex works.
OK Coomer.
If I meet a girl who is virgin, I would just think that she's terrible in bed or has beef curtains.
So what you're saying is you're a retard.
You’re smart. I always wanted to as well, but there was so much damn pressure, and I was too young to stand up to it.
Same here!
Awesome!!
Quoted because it's that important.
This is the part we need to blastvertise. Teach girls something like this:
"...no man respects a slut. Yeah, dudes will bang you right up until someone prettier comes along. Is that what you want, to be used and disposed of like a sperm-rag? No? Then get your self-respect and make him work his ass off for it, preferably with a ring. Do it now, while you're young and pretty, so you can get your pick, and not have to settle."
And yes, I have a daughter. And yes, she got a very similar speech. She and her husband are happily married, and have been for about 5 years now.
Why would a woman who enjoys casual sex have no self respect?
Did you tell your daughter that sex is supposed to be pleasurable for her too, and not just a way to attract a provider?
Sex is totally a pleasurable thing, and both parties should get enjoyment out of that, but you conflate pleasure and casual sex, as if that jolt of dopamine were the only goal.
Casual sex is disposable. It actually removes the biggest component of pleasure from the act (the complete giving of oneself to the other, and the gift of the other person giving completely of him/herself to you.) Reducing sex to something that you just go get like it were a tub of ice cream cheapens the whole experience, and can lead towards some rather nasty things: self-abuse, adultery, and psychological burnout.
I would strongly suggest that you read "Theology of The Body" by John Paul II. In it, you will find a far more thorough explanation of the beauty of sex, and why it should remain within marriage.
One last bit, like it or lump it, women, unlike men, have an expiration date and a relatively limited window of opportunity in life. They also are more psychologically victimized by casual sex than men are, because men are hard-wired for casual polygamy, whereas women are hard-wired for monogamy.
This. Women are wired to need their mate to STAY. That goes back to the caveman days. If he pumps and dumps, she could be left alone with a baby to raise - and that would have been a death sentence for both of them, with no caveman to hunt meat for them and protect them.
Some women can do casual sex for a while, but then the repeated rejections take their toll and she becomes unable to handle it when he leaves. Plenty of women have been labeled as "crazy" when the real problem is that the casual sex has started to feel real, real bad.
I upvote your post, but I'm not convinced.
Even in casual sex you can completely give yourself to the other person. It's like living a brief fantasy where instead of being alone, for that moment you have a partner.
I don't know if you've ever had casual sex; and I'm talking about the good kind: a date or few dates and conversation to get to know each other. Or fuck buddies. In these cases you do feel an intimate and personal connection.
The only thing that lacks is the commitment to spend the rest of your life with her.
It's a bit like career choices: some people prefer to be a permanent employee, others prefer being an independent contractor.
Liberals call it slut shaming and it's fucking retarded.
Speaking of that dumb shit, when did people start unironically saying "sex worker"? We already have a formal term for whores, sluts, hoes etc it's called prostitute.
Whore works just fine!
There's a word for that, I think it's hooker.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CHficJLPeSQ
Prostitute implies intercourse, there are other types of sex work.
There's other types of whores I know, world's full of them and entire websites are dedicated to it. Don't give it legitimacy by calling it "sex work".
That is why I love the thot patrol thing. Feminists were successful in convincing normies that “slut shaming” is not okay. Thot patrol is slut shaming, but doing it in a more persuasive way that you can’t really defend against. Now it’s not about them being a slut, but about protecting my bro’s from sluts. It has an even greater shaming effect. It has the persuasion level that is necessary to change behavior across an entire culture.
I’ve got some attractive exes that I’m still friends with. Whenever they send my pictures of themselves posing or in bikinis I don’t even respond.
The narcissism and thot mentality are so obnoxious. Unsolicited selfies are the female equivalent of a dick pic.
There’s a million way hotter chicks splashing their bodies over all media endlessly. You don’t compare to them. All you have is personality at this point and it’s be way cooler to find an interesting person than just another half naked woman desperate for attention.
Holy shit, pede. I never thought about it that way before!
They just want your dick
Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos.
Not a meme, just the truth.