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slrpnls 33 points ago +36 / -3

People probably think I'm weird but I always wanted to wait for marriage and to this day my wife is the only woman I've slept with.

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meals23 15 points ago +20 / -5

it's not weird pede it's admirable

men and women experience a thing called pair bonding, when you have sex with another person your brain releases hormones that make you feel really good being with that person and having sex with just that person

it's less pronounced in men than it is in women, and it also varies in strength on an individual basis, but it's still there, and the more people you have sex with the more those brain chemicals start to dull until eventually you have completely obliterated your ability to pair bond.

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Italians_Invented_2A -7 points ago +5 / -12

Bullshit.

If you find the right person for you I'll assure you you'll feel the bond even if you've banged lots of sluts beforehand.

On the other hand, if you're virgin or inexperienced when you meet the one you might blow it.

A man needs to be sexually experienced.

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meals23 6 points ago +6 / -0

I mean human beings are more than just a collection of chemicals, we have the capability to do anything we want to. I'm just talking about a chemical reaction that occurs in your brain, similar to how people who are addicted to narcotics need stronger and stronger doses to feel the same high

I also said that it's less pronounced in men than it is in women

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Italians_Invented_2A -5 points ago +1 / -6

Yes people in love feel a high.

But the tolerance that you see with some drugs (where you need always higher doses) doesn't happen with sex, because your brain resets.

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Libertas_Vel_Mors 4 points ago +4 / -0

You have got to be shitting me.

You set up a Catch-22 there - a man cannot have sex unless he's already had sex? Seriously?

You won't "blow it" if you've found "the one" - unless you only learned about sex from porn, that's not how sex works.

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Italians_Invented_2A -3 points ago +1 / -4

A man cannot impress a woman with his self confidence and dominance if he's not sexually experienced, is what I'm saying.

It doesn't work like in porn, that's exactly why you need notches on your belt.

The difference in our thinking is probably caused by me thinking that a woman will choose you as a life partner even based on your sexual prowess (after taking you for a test ride), while you think that sex is something that happens only after the deal is done.

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slrpnls 3 points ago +3 / -0

OK Coomer.

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Italians_Invented_2A -3 points ago +1 / -4

Virgin detected

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deleted 6 points ago +8 / -2
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Italians_Invented_2A -6 points ago +2 / -8

If I meet a girl who is virgin, I would just think that she's terrible in bed or has beef curtains.

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DibbleDibbleDibble 8 points ago +8 / -0

So what you're saying is you're a retard.

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Italians_Invented_2A -5 points ago +1 / -6

Or maybe I just want a supply of good quality blowjobs.

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tombombadil 4 points ago +4 / -0

You’re smart. I always wanted to as well, but there was so much damn pressure, and I was too young to stand up to it.

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TNpedefosho 4 points ago +4 / -0

Same here!

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AlphaNathan 4 points ago +4 / -0

Awesome!!