If your kid wants to commit suicide because you took their phone then you definitely need to stop their unhealthy obsession with that shit by, guess what? Taking it the fuck away.
Yeah, I agree. It's just harder than it sounds. I know I sound like a wuss, but teen kids are tricky.
Here's an example. My dad is conservative. I have more or less been conservative my whole life, but I had my rebellious periods. He never got authoritative. He just answered my questions and offered his opinions. Eventually I came around. It took more than a decade.
But, I'm lucky to be alive in a lot of ways for all the fucking around I did.
You are most welcome, Fren. I don't know if you are a God-fearing parent, but generally when I encounter needs coupled with humility, that becomes my prayer prayer list. (I hate saying it "goes on my prayer list," that's cliche and doesn't really convey the proper urgency)
If your kid wants to commit suicide because you took their phone then you definitely need to stop their unhealthy obsession with that shit by, guess what? Taking it the fuck away.
Yeah, I agree. It's just harder than it sounds. I know I sound like a wuss, but teen kids are tricky.
Here's an example. My dad is conservative. I have more or less been conservative my whole life, but I had my rebellious periods. He never got authoritative. He just answered my questions and offered his opinions. Eventually I came around. It took more than a decade.
But, I'm lucky to be alive in a lot of ways for all the fucking around I did.
Best of luck to you and your kids. Things like this are indeed difficult ...
Thank you. I appreciate it.
You are most welcome, Fren. I don't know if you are a God-fearing parent, but generally when I encounter needs coupled with humility, that becomes my prayer prayer list. (I hate saying it "goes on my prayer list," that's cliche and doesn't really convey the proper urgency)