Praise is a great way to shape a child’s behavior. For example, if you want your child to do chores regularly, praise him when you catch him throwing something in the trash can or putting a dish in the sink.
Make your praise specific so he knows why you are praising him. Instead of saying, "Great job," say, “Great job putting that dish in the sink as soon as you were done with it. I really like it when you put things away.” This lets him know the importance of behaving responsibly.
Be a positive influence. Children mimic the behavior they see around them. So if you're a good person and clean up after yourself, they'll be like that too.
If you're being questioned by the cops, then try to fight them and then walk to your car to grab a weapon and get shot in front of your kids, your kids will be like that too.
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Be a positive influence. Children mimic the behavior they see around them. So if you're a good person and clean up after yourself, they'll be like that too.
Same goes for negative behavior.
If you're being questioned by the cops, then try to fight them and then walk to your car to grab a weapon and get shot in front of your kids, your kids will be like that too.