I saw on imgur a few weeks ago some image about how pro-lifers are ignoring a crisis of adoption facilities being overwhelmed with excess children, or the adoption process being too long or not enough people doing it (I wish I remembered what the name of it was or I'd link it).

I find it sickening to say that I as a pro-lifer am a bad person for being pro-life for an unborn child while "ignoring" the kids waiting to be adopted, or even the implication that I'm somehow at fault for making such a crisis happen (if it's even a thing) or opting not to adopt at all. For one thing, at least they're alive to have a chance at experiencing life and a family (even if it's not their birth parents). THey have a chance to grow up, make something of themselves, and maybe have a chance to find their birth mother/father and reconnect again, instead of being consigned to death.

Besides, if it's such a fucking problem, get people to wear protection and stop fucking around like their dicks and pussies are casual sleeves for the next man or woman to insert wherever. Conception is not that hard a process to understand, nor is protection against it (or even abstinence). FUrthermore, expand your outreach. Get into contact with other adoption/foster care places or something to help look for families who would want to adopt.

To be fair, if I had to have a child, I would prefer it to be from my seed and not someone else's. That doesn't make me a monster.