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posted ago by deanieboi +197 / -0

So I've had a pretty rough time through the shutdown. I'm a pretty social guy, and I need human interaction to stay sane. Not only did the shutdown really stifle me, but during quarantine I lost both my girlfriend and my best friend in the span of a few weeks (for mostly unrelated reasons). I was hoping with college starting I would be able to meet new people, but the social distancing crap has made it really difficult. It's frustrating because the pro-shutdown crowd seem totally oblivious to the fact that their policies are hurting people. Heck, I knew a guy who killed himself, and I don't know the specifics, but I do know he was also a social guy and this was also really weighing down on him too.

Not to be a total downer of course. Throughout you guys have been a lot of fun and have taught me to laugh at all the stupidity life sends my may. I just love the positivity and high energy of this site. I know it's silly seeing as none of us will likely ever meet in person, but I just wanted to let y'all (and the devs of course) know how awesome this site really is.

So I've had a pretty rough time through the shutdown. I'm a pretty social guy, and I need human interaction to stay sane. Not only did the shutdown really stifle me, but during quarantine I lost both my girlfriend and my best friend in the span of a few weeks (for mostly unrelated reasons). I was hoping with college starting I would be able to meet new people, but the social distancing crap has made it really difficult. It's frustrating because the pro-shutdown crowd seem totally oblivious to the fact that their policies are hurting people. Heck, I knew a guy who killed himself, and I don't know the specifics, but I do know he was also a social guy and this was also really weighing down on him too. Not to be a total downer of course. Throughout you guys have been a lot of fun and have taught me to laugh at all the stupidity life sends my may. I just love the positivity and high energy of this site. I know it's silly seeing as none of us will likely ever meet in person, but I just wanted to let y'all (and the devs of course) know how awesome this site really is.
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dontUseVinegerAsLube 7 points ago +7 / -0

For sure pede! We are all frens here! Sending ❤️❤️❤️

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jimmycrack 3 points ago +3 / -0

that user name lmao

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deanieboi [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

One other thing I forgot to mention. I absolutely love how even when things are bad we can still laugh about it. I go onto forums like r/politicalhumor (gag) and I can tell they're just constantly angry. I'm glad I found the one spot where people can joke about politics without frothing at the mouth.

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jimmycrack 5 points ago +5 / -0

keep your chin up, things always seem darkest before the dawn

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Brookie2018 4 points ago +4 / -0

I hear you!.. I lost a friend of over 30 years! Thankfully my wife and I think alike and we can lean on each other.

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TrumpSteak 4 points ago +4 / -0

What state are you in? We've been pretty lucky in SC.

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deanieboi [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

WV. The shutdown isn't as bad as other states like New York, but my college is taking things pretty far. I'm still grateful it's not as bad as in the inner city.

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u/the36thirony 3 points ago +3 / -0

Stay strong pede - we need every pede ready!

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AngelMark 3 points ago +3 / -0

Stay strong! You are young! The world is your oyster and the BEST IS YET TO COME! PS Stay single until you finish school, get a job and an apt/house!

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Its_a_tough_racket 2 points ago +2 / -0

Man dude I felt like I could have written that. We’re here for each other. It’s crazy how polarized our society is right now. Well, just know you are not alone. My gut feeling tells me there’s more of us than there are blue checkmarks and the media and these sheep. It’s just they’re just a louder voice. They are more of us, Godfearing, hardworking, fun to be around, love humans for being humans who are still trying to figure out life during lockdown. It’s hard!

I believe we’re nearing a real tipping point. We’re going to end lockdowns and take our country back, get Trump re-elected or the Good Lord makes his return lol. I’m certain that we’re nearing either a fight and therefore purpose or the finish line. There’s more of us than there are of them and we’re winners, and that means whatever the outcome, it will be in our favor. So we gotta keep hanging in there together. This thing is getting to us all. Not for much longer. Regardless, we’re in it together. Thanks for posting this!!

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PartandParcel 2 points ago +2 / -0

Keep your head up pede. I went through the same thing a bit ago. Stay strong and dont forget to reach out to us if it gets you down some more. We are family here. This shutdown has gotten many ppl down and you are not alone. We will get past this.

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deanieboi [S] 1 point ago +2 / -1

I know it's silly but y'all really are the best, I really appreciate all the positive feedback

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Lexaprohater 2 points ago +2 / -0

I’ve lost all my friends too man. I still can’t beleive it. We’re all victims to psychological warfare and the casualties have a wierd way of manifesting. God speed

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deanieboi [S] 1 point ago +2 / -1

I feel you man. I'm sorry to hear that, I'm sure you'll find some great new friends soon

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Comntrinchief 2 points ago +2 / -0

Hang in there Pede. This too shall pass.

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SneakyWino -1 points ago +2 / -3

Are you in a position to take care of a pet? It really helps to have any company when you can't be with your friends. Sending warm thoughts and prayers your way, deanieboi. It looks like the tide is turning on the rioting and I think Trump is about to pull the plandemic plug in the next week or two so stay strong. THE BEST IS YET TO COME!