Daughter that told me when I'm old if I need someone to take care of me it won't be her but she would gladly "throw some money at it". Who I've worked with and listened to and tried to engage on uncountable occasions. Daughter that thinks it's her job to educate me about systemic racism, the plight of black people in America. Called her mother delusional on FB. This just happened via text:
D-sends link to video titled "Historian: From Reconstruction to BLM, Economic rights... blah blah blah
D-just watched this video discussing civil war issues, blah, blah...
Me- are you still supporting BLM?
If so I have some vids and articles I would like you to watch and read. If you're not willing then I have nothing else to say to you. I don't need to be educated by you, blah, blah, blah
D-video is about civil rights, stuff they don't teach you in school.
Me-they may not have taught you but guess what. I'm an educated well read woman that reads history books on just about everything. I also learned this stuff in school and from MY OWN BLACK FRIENDS. thanks, I'm good.
D-I support the sentiment of BLM... you know what, nevermind, this is it.
Me- are you willing to watch a video? If not then yeah, nevermind.
D-You are no longer my mother.
Me-Ok
D-good bye
~Fin. I guess maybe I was supposed to beg her not to disown me? IDK, all I do know is I'm so effing done. I will pray for her and if she ever comes around and our relationship can be two sides instead of just hers I'm here. Otherwise, hopefully her BLM allies will take care of her when she needs something. Or she has enough money to throw at it.
Hopefully she stays out of trouble. I have a feeling blm is gonna get curb stomped now that the whole thing boomeranged and people are ticked off about the breakdown of safety, security, law and order
I know. At this point I want her to pay it. When I found out she had called me delusional on FB and when she told me she would throw money at it when I'm old, when I found out she posted on FB that she couldn't believe her mother thought she would help take care of her in old age... all of that and she went broke donating money to BLM. She has a good job too. She's making a great salary. I'm just done. I want her to learn a lesson. It will probably be a hard lesson. It might be one like those folks in Kenosha learned this week. So be it.
I have a 24-yo daughter who tends to get a touch rebellious at times (though to my relief, not when it comes to politics). Thinks she knows everything. Just like her mother and I thought we did when we were that age.
Sometimes it takes being smacked upside the head by life, being abandoned by 'friends', and being left to rot, before some folks realize they fucked up and don't know even a fraction of what they thought they did. That's when they either ask for help, or go all the way down. I sincerely hope that OP's daughter asks for the help.
The best advocacy for your position now is silence. Honestly, I don't see the point in arguing. I watch these videos of protesters and counter protesters screaming at each other, and I'm just like, "No. I won't ever do that." And I won't.
I have a niece that was indoctrinated away at college and know how you feel. The 20 something year olds have never been parents themselves. Stay unconditionally loving but don't accept her life style or choices. Family is more important than politics. I just stopped talking to her about BLM and her Protests. I keep my conversation limited but still invite her to family gatherings.
oh but she just told me I'm not her mother. I'm not trying anymore. If she wants her mother I'll engage but it has to be two sided. I'm done with this nonsense. She was broke a few weeks ago because she donated so much money to BLM. IMO that is supporting terrorism and I won't engage her any longer unless she denounces them.
I am sorry it has come to that and I hope she figures out why you need to do it. BLM and Antifa are a threat to our nation for sure. They are terrorists.
Blood doesn't mean shit anymore. Just cut your losses, just because they are family you don't have to like them. This is why we are in this mess. All theses mom's think their boy is innocent. Even if you have a video of them killing someone in cold blood, they will deny it. I had a few family memebers like that, got into a fist fight, sent them both to the hospital. Don't see them anymore and its been great.
I share your sentiment. I had the same type ordeal with my 3 yr younger brother some years ago. It kinda sucks to know now,what it was all based on.
Come to find out recently he is a Bernie BLM supporter. It was,always his way or the highway and anybody that didn't eat what he ate (extreme vegan) drink what he drank and believe what he believed it would be his mission in life to change them to his liking no matter the path. Now it all makes sense. That is a cult that originates in our public schools and gets worse in college.
She is a member of a legitimate cult. The only difference with this cult is that it is nationally recognized by a large part of the country so it is shamefully legitimized.
Point is that you cannot reason with cultists. They will fabricate words and change the definition of established words to always warp their argument.
When that fails they call you a fabricated label where there is no way to prove otherwise.
You did the right thing. Right now it is like trying to convince a Scientologist their belief system is wrong. You just can't. They are either deprogrammed through harsh life experiences or coddled into ignorant bliss.
You tell her you love her and hope to see her again some day.
This shit is tearing apart families! Fucking social media and the news completely destroying my family relationships between aunts uncles cousins etc etc. Fuck this communist bullshit! When we march, it should be first to take out the fucking Soros DAs, then we drag the motherfuckers at cnn and the media conglomerates out on the street.
I will pray for peace and reconciliation between you. I pray that she see the error of her path, and that your hearts remain open to receiving her back. Peace be with you.
Daughter that told me when I'm old if I need someone to take care of me it won't be her but she would gladly "throw some money at it". Who I've worked with and listened to and tried to engage on uncountable occasions. Daughter that thinks it's her job to educate me about systemic racism, the plight of black people in America. Called her mother delusional on FB. This just happened via text:
D-sends link to video titled "Historian: From Reconstruction to BLM, Economic rights... blah blah blah D-just watched this video discussing civil war issues, blah, blah...
Me- are you still supporting BLM? If so I have some vids and articles I would like you to watch and read. If you're not willing then I have nothing else to say to you. I don't need to be educated by you, blah, blah, blah
D-video is about civil rights, stuff they don't teach you in school.
Me-they may not have taught you but guess what. I'm an educated well read woman that reads history books on just about everything. I also learned this stuff in school and from MY OWN BLACK FRIENDS. thanks, I'm good.
D-I support the sentiment of BLM... you know what, nevermind, this is it.
Me- are you willing to watch a video? If not then yeah, nevermind.
D-You are no longer my mother.
Me-Ok
D-good bye
~Fin. I guess maybe I was supposed to beg her not to disown me? IDK, all I do know is I'm so effing done. I will pray for her and if she ever comes around and our relationship can be two sides instead of just hers I'm here. Otherwise, hopefully her BLM allies will take care of her when she needs something. Or she has enough money to throw at it.
Hopefully she stays out of trouble. I have a feeling blm is gonna get curb stomped now that the whole thing boomeranged and people are ticked off about the breakdown of safety, security, law and order
Stay strong in prayer and faith.
I know. At this point I want her to pay it. When I found out she had called me delusional on FB and when she told me she would throw money at it when I'm old, when I found out she posted on FB that she couldn't believe her mother thought she would help take care of her in old age... all of that and she went broke donating money to BLM. She has a good job too. She's making a great salary. I'm just done. I want her to learn a lesson. It will probably be a hard lesson. It might be one like those folks in Kenosha learned this week. So be it.
Seconded.
I have a 24-yo daughter who tends to get a touch rebellious at times (though to my relief, not when it comes to politics). Thinks she knows everything. Just like her mother and I thought we did when we were that age.
Sometimes it takes being smacked upside the head by life, being abandoned by 'friends', and being left to rot, before some folks realize they fucked up and don't know even a fraction of what they thought they did. That's when they either ask for help, or go all the way down. I sincerely hope that OP's daughter asks for the help.
Just ask her what she feels the police should have done in these situations? Then send her videos of cops getting killed doing what she says.
she won't watch or listen to anything else. nothing. there is no other side to this story other than what she has been indoctrinated with. I'm done.
I don’t blame you.
We desperately need to come together and share our experiences like this and share success stories especially.
There has to be a way to break the conditioning, we can't let the commies break up our families.
You did the right thing but it's obviously not the outcome you wanted and I wish things could be different for you.
The best advocacy for your position now is silence. Honestly, I don't see the point in arguing. I watch these videos of protesters and counter protesters screaming at each other, and I'm just like, "No. I won't ever do that." And I won't.
The left thinks we don't have any "Emotional Quotient", any "Emotional Intelligence"
That we cannot make great art, movies, music, or TV shows.
That we just don't have anything but dry facts, and cold logic.
That when it comes to emotions we are emotionally retarded.
They have programmed and conditioned their own zombies to punish us for that.
The radical Alt←Left is operating on subconscious emotions.
They honestly feel that by "beating us" they are teaching us what it is to suffer.
That by "beating us" they are helping us to be "less emotionally retarded".
That by "beating us" they are helping all of us, and teaching us "emotions".
The sun has set on them.
Their day is over.
Particularly the Intelligencia and celebrities.
No one who thinks they are immune is safe anymore.
The time for identifying the problem has passed.
The accounting is complete.
The settling of debts has begun.
Black Lives Matter is losing the class war.
We're not counting dollars any more.
We're not having listening sessions anymore.
We ain't lowering the Barr anymore.
Forget the $Billions Black Lives Matter has laundered.
Forget the talk of reparations or rebuild.
Forget the admission standards.
BLM is unaware of the emotional debt they owe our citizens.
BLM will pay the emotional debt they own our citizens.
BLM will admit the emotional standards of our citizens.
They have already begun to bleed and to plead.
I am so sorry for your loss.....One day hopefully she will see..the truth. I am sure you were a good father.
I have a niece that was indoctrinated away at college and know how you feel. The 20 something year olds have never been parents themselves. Stay unconditionally loving but don't accept her life style or choices. Family is more important than politics. I just stopped talking to her about BLM and her Protests. I keep my conversation limited but still invite her to family gatherings.
oh but she just told me I'm not her mother. I'm not trying anymore. If she wants her mother I'll engage but it has to be two sided. I'm done with this nonsense. She was broke a few weeks ago because she donated so much money to BLM. IMO that is supporting terrorism and I won't engage her any longer unless she denounces them.
You are a great mom. Someday she will remember that.
Thanks for this. It means a lot.
a one way relationship is one not worth having. Good on you for sticking up for yourself.
I am sorry it has come to that and I hope she figures out why you need to do it. BLM and Antifa are a threat to our nation for sure. They are terrorists.
She will grow up and in time you two can reconnect when her brain has developed
Blood doesn't mean shit anymore. Just cut your losses, just because they are family you don't have to like them. This is why we are in this mess. All theses mom's think their boy is innocent. Even if you have a video of them killing someone in cold blood, they will deny it. I had a few family memebers like that, got into a fist fight, sent them both to the hospital. Don't see them anymore and its been great.
I share your sentiment. I had the same type ordeal with my 3 yr younger brother some years ago. It kinda sucks to know now,what it was all based on. Come to find out recently he is a Bernie BLM supporter. It was,always his way or the highway and anybody that didn't eat what he ate (extreme vegan) drink what he drank and believe what he believed it would be his mission in life to change them to his liking no matter the path. Now it all makes sense. That is a cult that originates in our public schools and gets worse in college.
She is a member of a legitimate cult. The only difference with this cult is that it is nationally recognized by a large part of the country so it is shamefully legitimized.
Point is that you cannot reason with cultists. They will fabricate words and change the definition of established words to always warp their argument.
When that fails they call you a fabricated label where there is no way to prove otherwise.
You did the right thing. Right now it is like trying to convince a Scientologist their belief system is wrong. You just can't. They are either deprogrammed through harsh life experiences or coddled into ignorant bliss.
You tell her you love her and hope to see her again some day.
I hope you can reconcile with her in the future even though I have an intense hatred for BLM. This shit should not be breaking up families.
Send her thedonald.win-link. :)
This shit is tearing apart families! Fucking social media and the news completely destroying my family relationships between aunts uncles cousins etc etc. Fuck this communist bullshit! When we march, it should be first to take out the fucking Soros DAs, then we drag the motherfuckers at cnn and the media conglomerates out on the street.
Family is hard. Sorry for your loss. Even the worst cases can turn around. Keep faith.
I will pray for peace and reconciliation between you. I pray that she see the error of her path, and that your hearts remain open to receiving her back. Peace be with you.