He's wrong. I get it. He's trying to be nice and considerate. Those are good Christian ideals. But like any heretical understanding of the faith, it takes something that is true and over emphasizes it to the point that it begins to deny other basic truths. Like ours is a God who loves justice and truth. There is no real compassion without truth. It's like sex without marriage. It's kinda close, but missing the whole boat at the same time.