Many of them are just tall children. They've had safety nets for their entire lives and have never had to deal with the actual consequences of their actions. So they do what children do, they run from the problem they made and hope mommy, daddy, or some other adult will clean it up while they go play with Lego's in the other room. They need to be forced to stay in the mess they made and clean it up. That is the only way they'll finally start to grow up.