It sounds crazy to say but is much more fiscally reasonable to go to one job with kids. Daycare is expensive and sets children up with a terrible emotional foundation. Homeschooling is free. So you’ve gotta make a mortgage, car and food on one salary. None of that second salary goes to taxes and supporting those on the motor scooters that way. Little babies don’t cost anything themselves. You don’t need all the gear. Breastfeeding is healthier and costs nothing.

I’m glad to hear you are not black pilled and I hope you are able to make it work out.