A friendly message to all the single ladies around here...
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Communism, the other thing men want to see go down.
Hijacking top comment to say, gentlemen, there are four replies from women seeking patriotic men at the bottom of this comment thread. You're welcome.
Pedes need a dating site.
match.win?
MAGA Mates
No we don't. By and large, we don't have the issues people that need dating sites do.
That's harsh. Dating sites are a great way to meet people, it's not a place for people with "issues".
My "issue" is having high standards but living in a blue state. I'd use a dating site for pedes if there was one.
I met my husband on a dating site. EHarmony is a fantastic way to screen guys so you don’t end up dating some loser.
What you don’t like herpes and HPV??
Oh man you should see the tinder/hinge options in Brooklyn. It’s like you’ve gone to the yearly look stupid and gross on purpose fest
no they're not. Every dating site is a literal scam. The only legit dating site is when you see a cute girl in person and actually have the guts to go say hi.
lol dude. You can waste your time with that shit. It's literally all catfishing homos, obscenely ugly chicks with doctored photos, and camsite bots. The 1 in 100 who are actual decent looking women are usually sluts who aren't worth your time other than looking ok.
Met my wife on a dating site. Not tinder though, tinder is gross.
I'm not saying there aren't exceptions. But really the worst part of it is that it gives a shitty fatalistic vibe that totally kills any energy. You don't know who you are talking to, and vice versa. If you just meet a girl in person you are basically skipping this superfluous online bullshit. I don't need it.
Beg to differ.
I’m short, stocky, look like Gizmo from the Gremlins movie and at 33 y/o, never been married and don’t have kids.
Most men want a beautiful blonde in her 20s. I can’t compete with that with how I look and my self esteem haha
Men are visual creatures. It’s inherent to our nature to be titillated by attractive female features. But there’s a difference between the short term glance of infatuation and the love and devotion a man feels for a partner. Some foolish men do just want a pretty thing for their mantelpiece, but decent men understand the value of a partner who will support them, regardless of her looks. I’m a pretty attractive guy that’s been with some beautiful women, but have also spent a long time with women who were by no means model material. Male standards are NOWHERE near as high as you think they are. All men wanting long, lean blondes is what movies and social media would have you believe and it simply isn’t true. Most men are just happy to get a look or a feel lol. I’ve been with women who I wasn’t that physically attracted to at first, but I fell for them because of their personalities, intellect, and confidence and then grew into deep, physical attraction to them. Don’t let media stereotypes make you think you won’t find a dreamy man who will love you. You have so much more to offer than looks. Project confidence, embrace the quirks, talents, values, and interests that make you you, and I promise you can find a good man. Even on a dating site :)
Project confidence like our great female leaders:
Sarah Sanders
Kayleigh McEnany
First Lady Melania Trump
Candice Owens
Lauren Southern
... and I'm sure there is a plethora more I am missing! Someone help me out!
Nice post!
The more 'feminine' you are - the more men will look towards you. We can't help it - we may 'see' beauty in centerfolds and movie stars - but that is not going to keep her around long if she is a psycho nut case.... and so many modern women are just like that.
The other 23 hours of the day count for something too.
If you cultivate your personality, you’ll be far ahead of all the others. It’ll do wonders for your self esteem too
I’ve always had an attraction to short tomboys, FWIW.
Nah. I’m build like a tall midget minus the big forehead haha
Hijacking the hijacking comment to say, Ay ladies.
Is it true that most women prefer men who are a bit older than them (heck even if the dude is 87).
Make that 5. Am single lady ready to talk about it all. I am looking for a man like that. too many birkenstock wearin', gray curly haired havin', 'sincere' alan alda types running around. I'd rather be alone than be with one of them. (shudder.)
Me too! Where are the real men? I'm trapped in Washington State...too many soybois here.
In Washington you would most likely have to go rural. Tons of red out there. Goodluck on your search.
All men want sex, but not all men want just sex.
Communism, the other thing that sucks.
Maybe I'm strange as a woman bt my #1 priority in future relationships is the ability to have deep heartfelt conversations about blasting commies away and loving Trump.
Are you local?
Marry me
If lovin you is strange, I dont wanna be routine.
Ring worthy Pedette
Definitely rare.
But if that is strange, I don't wanna be normal.
My last girlfriend was a stealth liberal. Went to church, quite religious...but on nearly ever darn social issue she went to the left. Was super "understanding" for abortion, voted for damn Gillum for Governor of Florida, didn't support Kavanaugh, did not support Trump, supported the rioters and poked fun at people calling out their chaos and destruction. Had me turn Rush off once when I had him casually(and fairly low volume) on the radio.
She shied away and hid a lot of it, when we first got together I hadn't been fully red-pilled and we both said we weren't very political. So for a long time it was very much a non-issue.
I of course got significantly red-pilled in the span of about 2.5 years...and over time, here and there I would find more and more odd lefty tendencies she had.
My next girlfriend and my eventual wife will be someone who is a proper conservative woman.
So... you threw her out of a helicopter? Mah Man! We’re basically wingmen right now!
Haha no. I did break up with her though. She is a nice girl, but good lord...deep moral compatibility is super important, and political compatibility is becoming increasingly important for anyone who cares about such things.
These are indeed complicated times. I won’t go so far as to offer “advice”, because that shits always lame. What I say is best of luck, and keep the chopper doors open.
The Bible talking about the risks of being unequally yoked comes to mind. But I just don't think it is realistic. Even several girls I went to Bible School with a decade ago were posting black BLM squares on Instagram a couple months ago. Girls are naturally followers, which is why you should develop yourself into a manly leader.
Think of partner dance. They LOVE being led by a competent man.
Unequally yoked mostly means Christians shouldn't marry non-Christians. That leads to spiritual complications.
Like ogres, it is a metaphorical onion that has more than one layer of meaning.
A lot of women are like this. There aren’t that many of us willing to buck the social trends and actually take a stand, which is what being conservative requires you to do these days
Oh I’m the asshole of the family for telling all the welfare queens to get a fucking job and that they are terrible human beings for having kids out of wedlock that only leads to more welfare queens that have kids out of wedlock.
Calling a spade a spade. Good on you!
I am willing to take a stand. And I don't make any bones about it. But I'm older and I come from a generation that did speak their mind.
Unfortunately, sometimes I forget and use my outside voice. As in, *"You think Hiden Biden and Heels up Harris are a good choice? ARE YOU INSANE? Do you have any ability to consider long term consequences? Sorry, you say you are Liberal and you condone Elder Abuse and Rising to the Top through Blow Jobs? REALLY?" *
And then I realize everyone is looking at me in the back of the church... kek ... no, not really... but I've said some things pretty loudly. That's when I get the "Ok Boomer" comments. But dammit... we KNOW SHIT!
When I met my wife she was a raging liberal, but she was young too so I didn't rule her out. Over time I could tell that she really hadn't made up her mind about a lot of the issues she said she supported and much of it was "received opinion".
But her faith is what made me realize she was different and the conversations I had with her made me realize she had just never been exposed to an authentic explanation of conservative and classically liberal ideals.
She had been inculcated with these Marxist ideas since she was in elementary school but as soon as she really scrutinized them she realized how she had been lied to and it really opened her eyes.
She is a full-on red pill dispenser on social media now, and in a way that I could never do. She is plugged in to all her Marxist "friends" from school on social media so she has access to them in a way we could only dream. You should see some of the responses she gets. One of her girl "friends" said to stop posting the stuff about Joe Biden being a pedo because "it was making it harder for her to vote for him". I seriously believe she had changed votes this election, based on what I hear from her friends. At lot of their feedback is positive too. A lot more than I ever thought she'd get, that is for sure.
She has lost something like 100 "friends" since the beginning of the year from people removing her. It is her badge of honor. She says she is going for 200 by the election. "Fuck em, thank you" were her actual words when I asked how she felt about it. Couldn't be any more proud of her.
Just keep that in mind, my wife is incredible. If I would've had the same rule as you describe I would've disqualified her, which frankly makes me shudder thinking about, God help me if I had.
But I'm also not saying your rule does not have merit, it absolutely does.
There are just many flavors of liberal and the good women are worth figuring out which kind they are because they might be worth attempting to convert.
That being said, I also think once you're dating someone 26-30+ years old, that rule is a lot more useful.
Your chances of converting someone at that point in their lives are not extremely high.
You really dodged a bullet on that one!
Absolutely.
Also....I'm not a Harry Potter fan, but apparently she was a "Hufflepuff" and was like, proud/outspoken about it....and I'm told that is a pretty awful thing.
Any woman that classifies herself based on Harry Potter books must be avoided at all costs. Run.
That's exactly what a Slytherin would say
Spoken like a Ravenclaw
LOL!
Or any other children's book
Come off it you two. I just listened to the whole series and enjoyed it.
Sounds a lot like our master in chief if you ask me.
HP is a good series, it's actually very conservative but dumb leftists don't realize it.
It is one thing to be a good series. It is another to run around identifying as a Hufflepuff's as an adult.
Self defence training behind the schools back after they do not prepare them well enough. XD Just need some automatic spell casting wands and we are good.
I wanna have savage angry sex then talk about throwing commies out of helicopters
I’m more of a foreplay kinda guy. As in I shout “fore!” to alert fellow citizens of the falling commie. Then it’s time for wine and dancing.
I want to have savage helicopter sex then talk angrily about commies.
Ima dude so touching myself because of my raging toxic masculinity.
turbine engine noises intensify
spreads cheeks
Give it to me guys!
Oh Barry.
well, no thanks for that mental image.
he can't keep getting away with it!
Marry Me
We need a dating board!
Love.WIN
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Upvote x100...
Yes please
And I want a man who will teach me how to use a paintball gun and go paintballing.
We all can’t get what we want!!
I want a homestead. With pigs, dogs, a couple of goats and chickens. Probably some sheep.
But I can’t imagine raising an animal just to eat it. I’m too emotional for that shit! I still feel guilty as 10 types of fucks for putting my dog down in January 2016. 🥺😭
Trust me when you have spent $200 on fence repairs after your $100 pig got out and decimated your vegetable garden with. no. guilt. Visions of pork chops and bacon will start shamelessly floating in your head.
Actually, I would have a pet pig. There’s a video of a person with 3 dogs and a pet pig.
Life goals tbh
Would you get one of those small potbellied ones? They are ridiculously cute.
Maybe! But I know there’s no such thing as a small pig!
Kunekune pig? (Pronounced "Coo-nee" twice).
There are little breeds and some runts don't grow any bigger than a large dog. The emotional attachment is why you would call over a neighbor or hire an ambulatory butcher in ye olden days. People still do that for legal reasons but it's something to consider. Not everyone is cut out (no pun intended) to thrust the knife in.
I’m not vegan cuz I have a spine. I will just have to go shopping for meat. I already took up gardening thanks to the lockdowns. 😅
Though bacon is the only pork product I will eat. Pigs are my favorite animal, but I am American and we eats bacon, damnit.
Pigs are excellent creatures, excellent for cleaning up Liberal mess. XD
Bacon and ribs yumyumyum
I think chickens are a good way to break into meat raising. I raise both hens for eggs and Cornish crosses for meat. It was definitely rough putting them out and still is to be completely honest. I just had a cow and a pig done too. It’s definitely a blood pumping experience but it can be normalized even for animal lovers like myself. Fresh meat tastes so much better than store bought and the appreciation is something you can’t replicate. I’m just a city boy from San Diego as well so it can definitely be done.
My mom used to kill chickens for the family dinner when she was little. She said she'd just grab them by the neck and spin them around until the head popped off. Not joking.
Damn, that’s one way. I just cut the arteries when they’re upside down in a cone. I think you get better drainage of blood that way.
For the animal lovers in this thread, have a nice hard think about all the ones who were just burned alive in the arson fires. Keep in mind that the same ruthlessness can be enacted upon humans.
Are all the helicopter memes today because of the fires in particular? These scumbags and their supporters are losing more and more simp-athizers by the minute.
did you eat your dog?
some animals were made for the food chain. some animals are angels in fur coats. you can eat a chicken and still love your dog
“Hunting Politicians” will be the most popular sport in America in 2021.
Change my mind.
I dunno, "Hunting Fake News Reporters" might give it a run for it's money in the ratings.
God I wish this was real
Awesome!
You're clearly looking in the wrong places... try going to Bob Wards around late September depending on when hunting season starts in your area, and look for a good looking guy without a ring in the ammunition (or better yet, reloading) section... we're out here!
Oooooh that's great advice! I'm heading out for Bass's Pro shop tomorrow!
Keep us posted!
Bass Pro no bueno but I like the moxie in going straight to the Pro Shop for that not-broke not-hunting-for-substinence manly man!
At her request, I taught my girlfriend how to clean a handgun. Am I doing it right?
Well we could learn together if you like.
A must-have skill for commie 20 year olds who like to steal Trump yard signs and Trump flags. Gotta have those 9mm skills also in case a commie decides stealing yard signs isn't enough and wants to break in!
I know right?? How dare she just mentions something she wants!
Everything is more fun with friends. And significant others are the top tier friends.
Yup. Shoot each other on the field then some more shooting ;) afterwards at home.
OTOH, Tranny Man, what exactly do you have to offer a lady? Other than charm, that is.
You seem nice.
I'd like to meet a man like that. They're scarce in blue country.
We are around, trust in that.
It's so much harder the other way around, trying to find a sane woman in an insane area
Come on out to Texas .... just got 500 rounds of 300 blackout ordered.
Username checks out. https://youtu.be/HWHjhRuRoZU
Age range?
We need a dating site for all those aeronautically inclined. Someplace where we can meet people to date who share our interests in the aerodynamics of free falling commies. What would we call such a site?
Gravity. “Feel it’s inexorable pull on your heart.”
or
Float. “Meet the person who will elevate your spirits while lightening your load.”
PixieDust: "I believe they can fly"
That’s more prolific than “what can you put in a barrel that has no mass to make it lighter? A hole.”.
Seriously, man you just broke modern physics. Patent that shit!
Can't we do both?
Don't kid yourself, I require both.
In a Non John McAfee kinda way too.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRQmhwhBcEk
Pepe Remembers
Ugh not even gonna click that link. He is one sick puppy
Some Pedes were promoting him as some sort of a worthwhile guy earlier in the week. Just a friendly PSA that he's a sick dude.
Have you seen this interview? Got dayum hilarious.
https://youtu.be/tfe4Fjf3sds
Top KEKS! What a roast! Dude looks super haggard for a video interview too.
I dont ever even want to hear that guys name again, ever.
The real question is: Can a hammock with a hole cut in it, protect you from Covid?
Kinda feel like Kamala Harris could answer this question....
Maybe this is why some Pedes were pumping him. We could get these two together, for a revolution in the ultimate virus protection! We will of course have to test it in a public venue. Can anyone meme this?
What do you think about buying a CH-47 Chinook?
You've made me the happiest girl in the world!
That's a keeper
I'm Generalisimo Pinochet and I Approve This Meme.
Yo!!! Whadup homeboy?! What are we drinking tonight? I got the ol’ bird fueled up and ready to go.
The we will drink the tears of communist swine before sending them to their designated and rightfully earned resting place!
This.
Started going MAGA rallies here in Central Florida and making friends and sure enough, there's MAGA ladies who love a real man and laugh at helicopter memes.
🚁 🇺🇸💕👨👩👧
🤾
Best use of emojis so far.
Wish Washington had rallies
Relationship goals.
That’s... so very Canadian of you to say.
My last boyfriend broke up with me because hes a RINO that doesnt like Trump he made fun of me for my MAGA.
Our gain. :) RINOs need not apply
Downvote brigade here early! (For them)
virginity doesn't sleep
*Virgins don't sleep lol
My husband wants both. At the same time!😂
We have the best hockey moms (who are also Law and Order moms)
4 hours of this and I'd have to call my doctor.
Screw that, call your friends instead and brag.
I am a single man, can confirm
My girl has awful taste in entertainment and will admit so. She listens to cardi b and watches trashy reality tv but she's red pilled and let's me talk maga to her. Sex is good but knowing I can send her spicy memes from td that will be appreciated and answered in kind is what makes me think she might be the one.
If she can listen to Cardi and also enjoy spicy memes she might be the free-thinker we all wish to be.
Listening to cardi b AND liking spicy memes sounds like cognitive dissonance.
I was trying to be polite. But yes.
Hey I sometimes feel that way too and give her shit but then I realize being amused by something/someone does not mean you support or condone them. It's something the left absolutely cannot grasp and why they try to play gatekeepers. They can't fathom that a conservative could like listening to the music of Rage against the Machine while also thinking tom morello and zack dela rocha are nothing but race baiting sellouts.
nobody is perfect and half the fun in relationships is teasing the other about the stuff they like and the stuff they do. my girl is Colombian and listens to all that crazy Hispanic music shit that just sounds like noise to me, meanwhile I listen to Amon Amarth and to me it's some of the most brutal shit known to man but she says it sounds like cookie monster. so when we go to the gym i make sure to blast that shit as loud as i can until she gets annoyed and starts screeching at me, i say what it's just cookie monster who doesn't love cookie monster
we torture each other for laughs and nothing makes me happy like seeing her go all Latin on me, that's how you know it's real love. I hate when I have to travel for work because I can't fall asleep properly if she's not next to me. my point is there's a lot more important things in relationships than just whatever garbage they listen to for music . Not everybody can be 100% based in all things
Big time. They always pretend that they are just watching it "to make fun of it" or because they're "so stupid it makes me laugh" but in reality it's what they want. If your girl listens to hip hop and rap I hope you're black, or you're in for a rude awakening at some point.
Maybe she's one of them independents. Always good to have as long as she isn't a commie I guess
They also want you to be wholesome, and for you to endeavor to make us better people even if we bitch about it every step of the way.
Modern feminism has failed you.
I cook, clean? And my favorite thing to do right now is cross stitch.
Yes, I want to be in one of those old couples who has a couch and a lazy boy in the living room next to each other. I’m at the edge of the couch doing some sort of old woman craft while the husband is on his lazy boy next to me either snoring or reading.
She’s a keeper right here
Oh, I love to see old couples! Especially when they're hobbling along with their canes and walkers, they can hardly walk but they just prop each other up and keep going. It is so sweet, relationship goals!
I can be straight up Andy Griffith wholesome. I also reserve the right to go full Genghis Kahn on some fools.
And, whatever you do, don't listen to them when they tell you, or make the horrible mistake of asking them, what they want.
They don't know either.
My girl-friends get mad at me for saying that then smile because they know it is true. I seriously have never had a girl-friend even take me to task on this statement, which I think is telling.
Don't get me wrong, we men don't either, y'all just think you know. Most of us know we'll never figure you out, and gave up on trying a long time ago. The smart ones did at least.
That's ties in to my theory on how dating in general really should be approached. You start out dating thinking you know what you want and, hopefully, through the trials and tribulations of your relationships you end up learning what you really need.
The answer to that is the same and different for everyone of us at the same time, I think.
There are certain things all successful relationships share, but the list isn't very long.
There are many different ways of having a successful marriage. What works for you might not work for others, and that is perfectly fine.
There seems to be no advice people love giving more than marriage advice, for some reason, just look at me go here.
The only advice that matters is that which originates from your SO, nobody else's.
People enjoy sharing wisdom of their experiences. Some of it is because we like being helpful, some of it is probably a little vain.
My favorite piece of advice for new parents is something I experienced and wished someone would have told me: don’t get button-up onesies. Don’t let your parents or friends buy you button-up onesies. Only get zipper onesies. The reason being is when it’s 4 am and you’re tired as fuck and have to get up in a couple hours for work so you’re irritated too, and you’re changing your infant’s blowout diaper, you really don’t want to have to deal with those tiny evil buttons
How did he hold on to that gem of a statement for 21 years?
The great thing from my perspective as a man is, IMO, if he didn't still feel that way about you he wouldn't have told you, even now.
I feel the exact same way about mine.
Thank you for sharing that. Brought a smile to my face.
If I had a time machine, I'd go back to the 60s and bitch slap every hippie feminist who burned her bra and pushed for women in the workforce. They screwed us.
I wanted to be a 50s style housewife - there is honor in raising a family and running a home.
Now we are supposed to do that and pull serious bucks.
It's a gigantic stressful strain on women (well, GOOD women). I've seen it play out with basically all of my wife's female friends and my female acquaintances. College, job, married, kids then: "Wait... I want to be home with my kid." And then it dawns on them. The reality of their nature and that they've been lied to. They WANT to be at home. They freakin LOVE it.
We know someone with a mathematics degree who thought it was her literal calling to educate people. After her child she's like fuck this, I'm quitting in a year and it'll be a miserable year. I want family over this. lol.....
Single, Cuban, commie hatin' pede right here. Take me on that helicopter ride baby!
...and then have sex
Ah romance!
I always think of the movie Animal House when it comes to romance and love.
Do you want the pussified guy playing the acoustic guitar to a bunch of floozies?
Or would you rather have Bluto who smashes said guitar against the wall and ends up a one woman man?
This.
Been married 40 yrs. Yes, that question stills comes up occasionally.
The first 5 years it's "house sex" when you do it in every room in the house.
The next 15 years is "bedroom sex" when you only do it in the bedroom.
The last 30 years is "hall sex" when you just yell fuck you down the hall.
Then why don’t you offer to get a vasectomy and/or her get her tubes tied so that you can enjoy sex without pregnancy? u/Caroney-Bologna
Time to buy a helicopter and find out.
Spin it right round!
I pray that one day ill find one of those women in this cucked blue state..... usually they are taken early and im in my 30s.
Think globally. Get a girl from Eastern Europe. Great looking, smart and still traditional. For now. Or central America.
Sounds like she's from France or something.
Eastern European pede here. Can confirm.
Just hoping to find my MAGA lady one day. Dating sucks here in Chicagoland.
You may have answered your own question. Apparently the conservative girls in Chicago are extremely attractive, well educated and accomplished. If competing at this level is in your wheelhouse here's an example. I have already forwarded this to my son. https://thefederalist.com/author/evitaduffy/
Why is it most conservative ladies in media are much hotter than lib females???
Evita proves this rule.
My guess? Conservatives think about consequences, Lefties think about reward. Eat what you want in small amounts and you'll likely stay fit/not obese vs eat whatever you want whenever you want and you'll be slobbishly obese in no time. Exercise vs sitting on ones arse at Starbucks. Reading the news versus reading the headline. On and on we could go.
Consequences of actions tend to prevent that action from occurring, while rewards for actions tend to lead to that action being done.
C'mon man!
Wish I wasn't so quiet and withdrawn. Absolutely dying to have a ladypede to hold and protect. Slim pickings here in Kansas unless youre a country boy. :(
Single pede in a blue state. Fit, educated, solvent and Trumpian. Love guns and the Constitution.
Have never met an available MAGA man that's age appropriate (50).
...then have sex
Indeed!! Too funny.
I’ve tried the dating websites...haven’t worked for me in the past. However, I would use a pede match.com! From a small town in CA and not much to choose from...
Almost impossible to find a conservative man that loves God, supports Trump, and has a decent job to support a family. Me? I’m already there!
.....and sex.
.....and sammiches
Proud to say my father threw one out, for real, several years back.
Come on man, don’t tease us like that. We need some details. Like altitude, target location, weather and wind directions, what were the commies last words?
Vietnam. He was an "Advisor" as the war started. was training some foreign soldiers that were to be on our side and then one stood up and pulled the pin on a hand grenade inside their chopper so he pushed him out, grenade in hand. Also told me a story about going very high in choppers and cutting the engines and falling, then starting engines again. Also, he had a box of photos from that time with lots of "Heads"... Vietnam was crazy times. BUT those commies at their worst were 1 million times smarter than the ones who protest he says.
This here is prime example why so many vets came back fucked up. The nature of that war drove men insane. My hat off to your father and thank him for his service.
And then have sex
Oh yea!
What's sex?
A type of cake?
Like Beefcake?
Chasing that feeling of first throwing a damned commie out of a helicopter would be excruciating
... and then have sex.
por que no los dos?
Can someone update me on the helicopter references? I don't check this place for 12 hours and feel like I'm way behind the news on the last great meme war.
Pinochet did nothing wrong, just saying.
It's not one of those sudden memes, this one has been a low boil for a while. I don't know the full details of the origin, but basically it comes down to "Throw communists from helicopters" and Pinochet (who apparently actually did that).
And guns...
But mUh boating accident!
Lost them all. Hey Pede? Sorry to hear.
Y not both?
...but, to be clear, we're not forgetting about the sex
Both are pretty pleasant though.
One of the hardest things for conservative boomer women is our Departments of War killed off a lot of really good men. You had to be physically and mentally fit. They drafted good men without the connections or money to get out. Now so many of them lie 6 feet under, or worse, in a refrigerator box in an alleyway. They blew up their bodies, their minds, their self-worth, and destroyed them with drugs and agent orange. That seriously cut into the pool of available, conservative, patriotic men.
For me, a good man would be between 57 and 70. Primarily because those in their late 50's missed the Vietnam War. And, most of the good ones are married or in a committed relationship. I would never come between that. It's too hard to find someone you can love and trust. So, that's my Saturday night whine. Naw, not really whining. I have a lot of young male friends who are just that... friends. They keep trying to set me up with their fathers... but even their fathers are too young! kek
This comment just got to me on several levels. Although I’m about 20 years shy of you target audience, I have known many men from the era you speak of. Actually one of my closest neighbors and friend is 71 and went to Nam. He really is a great guy but some of the things that happened to his body are not fair. Men like him are very few and far between. Which is why what you said hits home.
Him and I often talk and connect on a brotherly-level. We have a mutual respect and understanding of each other despite the age difference. A lot of it comes from our hobby of woodworking. I would honestly choose to hang out and get drunk with him over someone my own age, any night.
Idk what point I’m trying to make, except that I’d hang out with you any day. Give some of those guys a chance because we’re not all bound to the number of our ages.
Oh thank you so much. It's lonely out here for older boomer women who are patriots and single. Though I do find a lot of younger men I can talk with. There are some things that being near the same generation helps. Some shared experiences and understandings. The best part of being older is I just don't do "drama" anymore. Not worth the effort. And that's what men your age really appreciate!
We really do need to find a way for legitimate connections with each other without doxxing ourselves or putting up with trolls and shills causing us problems...