My last girlfriend was a stealth liberal. Went to church, quite religious...but on nearly ever darn social issue she went to the left. Was super "understanding" for abortion, voted for damn Gillum for Governor of Florida, didn't support Kavanaugh, did not support Trump, supported the rioters and poked fun at people calling out their chaos and destruction. Had me turn Rush off once when I had him casually(and fairly low volume) on the radio.
She shied away and hid a lot of it, when we first got together I hadn't been fully red-pilled and we both said we weren't very political. So for a long time it was very much a non-issue.
I of course got significantly red-pilled in the span of about 2.5 years...and over time, here and there I would find more and more odd lefty tendencies she had.
My next girlfriend and my eventual wife will be someone who is a proper conservative woman.
Haha no. I did break up with her though. She is a nice girl, but good lord...deep moral compatibility is super important, and political compatibility is becoming increasingly important for anyone who cares about such things.
These are indeed complicated times. I won’t go so far as to offer “advice”, because that shits always lame. What I say is best of luck, and keep the chopper doors open.
political compatibility is becoming increasingly important
The Bible talking about the risks of being unequally yoked comes to mind. But I just don't think it is realistic. Even several girls I went to Bible School with a decade ago were posting black BLM squares on Instagram a couple months ago. Girls are naturally followers, which is why you should develop yourself into a manly leader.
Think of partner dance. They LOVE being led by a competent man.
A lot of women are like this. There aren’t that many of us willing to buck the social trends and actually take a stand, which is what being conservative requires you to do these days
Oh I’m the asshole of the family for telling all the welfare queens to get a fucking job and that they are terrible human beings for having kids out of wedlock that only leads to more welfare queens that have kids out of wedlock.
I am willing to take a stand. And I don't make any bones about it. But I'm older and I come from a generation that did speak their mind.
Unfortunately, sometimes I forget and use my outside voice. As in, *"You think Hiden Biden and Heels up Harris are a good choice? ARE YOU INSANE? Do you have any ability to consider long term consequences? Sorry, you say you are Liberal and you condone Elder Abuse and Rising to the Top through Blow Jobs? REALLY?" *
And then I realize everyone is looking at me in the back of the church... kek ... no, not really... but I've said some things pretty loudly. That's when I get the "Ok Boomer" comments. But dammit... we KNOW SHIT!
When I met my wife she was a raging liberal, but she was young too so I didn't rule her out. Over time I could tell that she really hadn't made up her mind about a lot of the issues she said she supported and much of it was "received opinion".
But her faith is what made me realize she was different and the conversations I had with her made me realize she had just never been exposed to an authentic explanation of conservative and classically liberal ideals.
She had been inculcated with these Marxist ideas since she was in elementary school but as soon as she really scrutinized them she realized how she had been lied to and it really opened her eyes.
She is a full-on red pill dispenser on social media now, and in a way that I could never do. She is plugged in to all her Marxist "friends" from school on social media so she has access to them in a way we could only dream. You should see some of the responses she gets. One of her girl "friends" said to stop posting the stuff about Joe Biden being a pedo because "it was making it harder for her to vote for him". I seriously believe she had changed votes this election, based on what I hear from her friends. At lot of their feedback is positive too. A lot more than I ever thought she'd get, that is for sure.
She has lost something like 100 "friends" since the beginning of the year from people removing her. It is her badge of honor. She says she is going for 200 by the election. "Fuck em, thank you" were her actual words when I asked how she felt about it. Couldn't be any more proud of her.
Just keep that in mind, my wife is incredible. If I would've had the same rule as you describe I would've disqualified her, which frankly makes me shudder thinking about, God help me if I had.
But I'm also not saying your rule does not have merit, it absolutely does.
There are just many flavors of liberal and the good women are worth figuring out which kind they are because they might be worth attempting to convert.
That being said, I also think once you're dating someone 26-30+ years old, that rule is a lot more useful.
Your chances of converting someone at that point in their lives are not extremely high.
Also....I'm not a Harry Potter fan, but apparently she was a "Hufflepuff" and was like, proud/outspoken about it....and I'm told that is a pretty awful thing.
My last girlfriend was a stealth liberal. Went to church, quite religious...but on nearly ever darn social issue she went to the left. Was super "understanding" for abortion, voted for damn Gillum for Governor of Florida, didn't support Kavanaugh, did not support Trump, supported the rioters and poked fun at people calling out their chaos and destruction. Had me turn Rush off once when I had him casually(and fairly low volume) on the radio.
She shied away and hid a lot of it, when we first got together I hadn't been fully red-pilled and we both said we weren't very political. So for a long time it was very much a non-issue.
I of course got significantly red-pilled in the span of about 2.5 years...and over time, here and there I would find more and more odd lefty tendencies she had.
My next girlfriend and my eventual wife will be someone who is a proper conservative woman.
So... you threw her out of a helicopter? Mah Man! We’re basically wingmen right now!
Haha no. I did break up with her though. She is a nice girl, but good lord...deep moral compatibility is super important, and political compatibility is becoming increasingly important for anyone who cares about such things.
These are indeed complicated times. I won’t go so far as to offer “advice”, because that shits always lame. What I say is best of luck, and keep the chopper doors open.
The Bible talking about the risks of being unequally yoked comes to mind. But I just don't think it is realistic. Even several girls I went to Bible School with a decade ago were posting black BLM squares on Instagram a couple months ago. Girls are naturally followers, which is why you should develop yourself into a manly leader.
Think of partner dance. They LOVE being led by a competent man.
Unequally yoked mostly means Christians shouldn't marry non-Christians. That leads to spiritual complications.
A lot of women are like this. There aren’t that many of us willing to buck the social trends and actually take a stand, which is what being conservative requires you to do these days
Oh I’m the asshole of the family for telling all the welfare queens to get a fucking job and that they are terrible human beings for having kids out of wedlock that only leads to more welfare queens that have kids out of wedlock.
Calling a spade a spade. Good on you!
I am willing to take a stand. And I don't make any bones about it. But I'm older and I come from a generation that did speak their mind.
Unfortunately, sometimes I forget and use my outside voice. As in, *"You think Hiden Biden and Heels up Harris are a good choice? ARE YOU INSANE? Do you have any ability to consider long term consequences? Sorry, you say you are Liberal and you condone Elder Abuse and Rising to the Top through Blow Jobs? REALLY?" *
And then I realize everyone is looking at me in the back of the church... kek ... no, not really... but I've said some things pretty loudly. That's when I get the "Ok Boomer" comments. But dammit... we KNOW SHIT!
When I met my wife she was a raging liberal, but she was young too so I didn't rule her out. Over time I could tell that she really hadn't made up her mind about a lot of the issues she said she supported and much of it was "received opinion".
But her faith is what made me realize she was different and the conversations I had with her made me realize she had just never been exposed to an authentic explanation of conservative and classically liberal ideals.
She had been inculcated with these Marxist ideas since she was in elementary school but as soon as she really scrutinized them she realized how she had been lied to and it really opened her eyes.
She is a full-on red pill dispenser on social media now, and in a way that I could never do. She is plugged in to all her Marxist "friends" from school on social media so she has access to them in a way we could only dream. You should see some of the responses she gets. One of her girl "friends" said to stop posting the stuff about Joe Biden being a pedo because "it was making it harder for her to vote for him". I seriously believe she had changed votes this election, based on what I hear from her friends. At lot of their feedback is positive too. A lot more than I ever thought she'd get, that is for sure.
She has lost something like 100 "friends" since the beginning of the year from people removing her. It is her badge of honor. She says she is going for 200 by the election. "Fuck em, thank you" were her actual words when I asked how she felt about it. Couldn't be any more proud of her.
Just keep that in mind, my wife is incredible. If I would've had the same rule as you describe I would've disqualified her, which frankly makes me shudder thinking about, God help me if I had.
But I'm also not saying your rule does not have merit, it absolutely does.
There are just many flavors of liberal and the good women are worth figuring out which kind they are because they might be worth attempting to convert.
That being said, I also think once you're dating someone 26-30+ years old, that rule is a lot more useful.
Your chances of converting someone at that point in their lives are not extremely high.
You really dodged a bullet on that one!
Absolutely.
Also....I'm not a Harry Potter fan, but apparently she was a "Hufflepuff" and was like, proud/outspoken about it....and I'm told that is a pretty awful thing.
Any woman that classifies herself based on Harry Potter books must be avoided at all costs. Run.
That's exactly what a Slytherin would say
Or any other children's book
HP is a good series, it's actually very conservative but dumb leftists don't realize it.