no they're not. Every dating site is a literal scam. The only legit dating site is when you see a cute girl in person and actually have the guts to go say hi.
Men are visual creatures. It’s inherent to our nature to be titillated by attractive female features. But there’s a difference between the short term glance of infatuation and the love and devotion a man feels for a partner. Some foolish men do just want a pretty thing for their mantelpiece, but decent men understand the value of a partner who will support them, regardless of her looks. I’m a pretty attractive guy that’s been with some beautiful women, but have also spent a long time with women who were by no means model material. Male standards are NOWHERE near as high as you think they are. All men wanting long, lean blondes is what movies and social media would have you believe and it simply isn’t true. Most men are just happy to get a look or a feel lol. I’ve been with women who I wasn’t that physically attracted to at first, but I fell for them because of their personalities, intellect, and confidence and then grew into deep, physical attraction to them. Don’t let media stereotypes make you think you won’t find a dreamy man who will love you. You have so much more to offer than looks. Project confidence, embrace the quirks, talents, values, and interests that make you you, and I promise you can find a good man. Even on a dating site :)
The more 'feminine' you are - the more men will look towards you. We can't help it - we may 'see' beauty in centerfolds and movie stars - but that is not going to keep her around long if she is a psycho nut case.... and so many modern women are just like that.
The other 23 hours of the day count for something too.
Make that 5. Am single lady ready to talk about it all. I am looking for a man like that. too many birkenstock wearin', gray curly haired havin', 'sincere' alan alda types running around. I'd rather be alone than be with one of them. (shudder.)
Hijacking top comment to say, gentlemen, there are four replies from women seeking patriotic men at the bottom of this comment thread. You're welcome.
Pedes need a dating site.
match.win?
No we don't. By and large, we don't have the issues people that need dating sites do.
That's harsh. Dating sites are a great way to meet people, it's not a place for people with "issues".
My "issue" is having high standards but living in a blue state. I'd use a dating site for pedes if there was one.
I met my husband on a dating site. EHarmony is a fantastic way to screen guys so you don’t end up dating some loser.
no they're not. Every dating site is a literal scam. The only legit dating site is when you see a cute girl in person and actually have the guts to go say hi.
Beg to differ.
I’m short, stocky, look like Gizmo from the Gremlins movie and at 33 y/o, never been married and don’t have kids.
Most men want a beautiful blonde in her 20s. I can’t compete with that with how I look and my self esteem haha
Men are visual creatures. It’s inherent to our nature to be titillated by attractive female features. But there’s a difference between the short term glance of infatuation and the love and devotion a man feels for a partner. Some foolish men do just want a pretty thing for their mantelpiece, but decent men understand the value of a partner who will support them, regardless of her looks. I’m a pretty attractive guy that’s been with some beautiful women, but have also spent a long time with women who were by no means model material. Male standards are NOWHERE near as high as you think they are. All men wanting long, lean blondes is what movies and social media would have you believe and it simply isn’t true. Most men are just happy to get a look or a feel lol. I’ve been with women who I wasn’t that physically attracted to at first, but I fell for them because of their personalities, intellect, and confidence and then grew into deep, physical attraction to them. Don’t let media stereotypes make you think you won’t find a dreamy man who will love you. You have so much more to offer than looks. Project confidence, embrace the quirks, talents, values, and interests that make you you, and I promise you can find a good man. Even on a dating site :)
The more 'feminine' you are - the more men will look towards you. We can't help it - we may 'see' beauty in centerfolds and movie stars - but that is not going to keep her around long if she is a psycho nut case.... and so many modern women are just like that.
The other 23 hours of the day count for something too.
If you cultivate your personality, you’ll be far ahead of all the others. It’ll do wonders for your self esteem too
I’ve always had an attraction to short tomboys, FWIW.
Hijacking the hijacking comment to say, Ay ladies.
Is it true that most women prefer men who are a bit older than them (heck even if the dude is 87).
Make that 5. Am single lady ready to talk about it all. I am looking for a man like that. too many birkenstock wearin', gray curly haired havin', 'sincere' alan alda types running around. I'd rather be alone than be with one of them. (shudder.)
Me too! Where are the real men? I'm trapped in Washington State...too many soybois here.
In Washington you would most likely have to go rural. Tons of red out there. Goodluck on your search.