Men are visual creatures. It’s inherent to our nature to be titillated by attractive female features. But there’s a difference between the short term glance of infatuation and the love and devotion a man feels for a partner. Some foolish men do just want a pretty thing for their mantelpiece, but decent men understand the value of a partner who will support them, regardless of her looks. I’m a pretty attractive guy that’s been with some beautiful women, but have also spent a long time with women who were by no means model material. Male standards are NOWHERE near as high as you think they are. All men wanting long, lean blondes is what movies and social media would have you believe and it simply isn’t true. Most men are just happy to get a look or a feel lol. I’ve been with women who I wasn’t that physically attracted to at first, but I fell for them because of their personalities, intellect, and confidence and then grew into deep, physical attraction to them. Don’t let media stereotypes make you think you won’t find a dreamy man who will love you. You have so much more to offer than looks. Project confidence, embrace the quirks, talents, values, and interests that make you you, and I promise you can find a good man. Even on a dating site :)
The more 'feminine' you are - the more men will look towards you. We can't help it - we may 'see' beauty in centerfolds and movie stars - but that is not going to keep her around long if she is a psycho nut case.... and so many modern women are just like that.
The other 23 hours of the day count for something too.
Beg to differ.
I’m short, stocky, look like Gizmo from the Gremlins movie and at 33 y/o, never been married and don’t have kids.
Most men want a beautiful blonde in her 20s. I can’t compete with that with how I look and my self esteem haha
Men are visual creatures. It’s inherent to our nature to be titillated by attractive female features. But there’s a difference between the short term glance of infatuation and the love and devotion a man feels for a partner. Some foolish men do just want a pretty thing for their mantelpiece, but decent men understand the value of a partner who will support them, regardless of her looks. I’m a pretty attractive guy that’s been with some beautiful women, but have also spent a long time with women who were by no means model material. Male standards are NOWHERE near as high as you think they are. All men wanting long, lean blondes is what movies and social media would have you believe and it simply isn’t true. Most men are just happy to get a look or a feel lol. I’ve been with women who I wasn’t that physically attracted to at first, but I fell for them because of their personalities, intellect, and confidence and then grew into deep, physical attraction to them. Don’t let media stereotypes make you think you won’t find a dreamy man who will love you. You have so much more to offer than looks. Project confidence, embrace the quirks, talents, values, and interests that make you you, and I promise you can find a good man. Even on a dating site :)
Project confidence like our great female leaders:
Sarah Sanders
Kayleigh McEnany
First Lady Melania Trump
Candice Owens
Lauren Southern
... and I'm sure there is a plethora more I am missing! Someone help me out!
Nice post!
The more 'feminine' you are - the more men will look towards you. We can't help it - we may 'see' beauty in centerfolds and movie stars - but that is not going to keep her around long if she is a psycho nut case.... and so many modern women are just like that.
The other 23 hours of the day count for something too.
If you cultivate your personality, you’ll be far ahead of all the others. It’ll do wonders for your self esteem too
I’ve always had an attraction to short tomboys, FWIW.
Nah. I’m build like a tall midget minus the big forehead haha