Men are visual creatures. It’s inherent to our nature to be titillated by attractive female features. But there’s a difference between the short term glance of infatuation and the love and devotion a man feels for a partner. Some foolish men do just want a pretty thing for their mantelpiece, but decent men understand the value of a partner who will support them, regardless of her looks. I’m a pretty attractive guy that’s been with some beautiful women, but have also spent a long time with women who were by no means model material. Male standards are NOWHERE near as high as you think they are. All men wanting long, lean blondes is what movies and social media would have you believe and it simply isn’t true. Most men are just happy to get a look or a feel lol. I’ve been with women who I wasn’t that physically attracted to at first, but I fell for them because of their personalities, intellect, and confidence and then grew into deep, physical attraction to them. Don’t let media stereotypes make you think you won’t find a dreamy man who will love you. You have so much more to offer than looks. Project confidence, embrace the quirks, talents, values, and interests that make you you, and I promise you can find a good man. Even on a dating site :)