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FreeJack2020 3 points ago +3 / -0

I'm not saying there aren't exceptions. But really the worst part of it is that it gives a shitty fatalistic vibe that totally kills any energy. You don't know who you are talking to, and vice versa. If you just meet a girl in person you are basically skipping this superfluous online bullshit. I don't need it.

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Lovesassycoffee 1 point ago +1 / -0

I had success from online dating by skipping all the texting, etc and just meeting in person right away and going on a date.

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jeffreyepstein 2 points ago +2 / -0

This is the best method. Most people in ny refuse to do this though and it gets boring. Now I just match with people by saying dumb shit, and i get a laugh for a few minutes. After that it becomes more of a ‘gotta catch em all game and see how many matches I can hoarde

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Lovesassycoffee 1 point ago +1 / -0

Hahaha, I honestly just hate doing small talk with someone I have never met/trying to forge some type of love connection.. Then I meet the guy and I am repulsed and disturbed by who i was talking to for days/weeks (sounds mean... But my true feelings lol).

On tinder I paid to see who liked me. That feature is nice. It is overwhelming though, if you are attractive lol