It's a gigantic stressful strain on women (well, GOOD women). I've seen it play out with basically all of my wife's female friends and my female acquaintances. College, job, married, kids then: "Wait... I want to be home with my kid." And then it dawns on them. The reality of their nature and that they've been lied to. They WANT to be at home. They freakin LOVE it.

We know someone with a mathematics degree who thought it was her literal calling to educate people. After her child she's like fuck this, I'm quitting in a year and it'll be a miserable year. I want family over this. lol.....