You can narrow that down to kids. Deciding to have kids in my late 30's was the best decision I've ever made. They are the sunshine of my fucking life. I try not to feel sorry for childless middle age women, but...enjoy your cats.
Had our first in our late 20's. Gave ourselves 5 years together after getting married to enjoy married life and become a little more successful. Having kids when you're fully ready and prepared for it, there's no better feeling. I couldn't imagine the love you could have for another human but I felt it the first time I held my daughter.
There's never a "right time" or a time when you're ready. It's honestly not nearly as hard as people make it out to be, everyone is negative about how difficult kids are but really they just add a few simple daily chores to your life. My dad only got to see the first year of life of my youngest kid before he passed away, and it pains me that my kids will never know or remember him because he was honestly the coolest motherfucker to ever walk the earth (just ask anybody).
Imagine being able to create other humans who will love you more than anything and always be on your side and care about you. All for the price of an extra bowl of oatmeal in the morning. That's kids. Why anyone wouldn't want to have as many as possible is beyond me.
You can narrow that down to kids. Deciding to have kids in my late 30's was the best decision I've ever made. They are the sunshine of my fucking life. I try not to feel sorry for childless middle age women, but...enjoy your cats.
Had our first in our late 20's. Gave ourselves 5 years together after getting married to enjoy married life and become a little more successful. Having kids when you're fully ready and prepared for it, there's no better feeling. I couldn't imagine the love you could have for another human but I felt it the first time I held my daughter.
Dude me too. Late thirties. Damn it’s the best. Wish I had done it sooner.
There's never a "right time" or a time when you're ready. It's honestly not nearly as hard as people make it out to be, everyone is negative about how difficult kids are but really they just add a few simple daily chores to your life. My dad only got to see the first year of life of my youngest kid before he passed away, and it pains me that my kids will never know or remember him because he was honestly the coolest motherfucker to ever walk the earth (just ask anybody).
Women, consider freezing your eggs while you can.
That gives flexibility later.
Saw a news report of some woman howling in pain because the eggs she froze all failed.
This will be me, except like 10-20 years later and dating 21 yr olds because everyone close to my age will be dead or annoying as fuck.
Imagine being able to create other humans who will love you more than anything and always be on your side and care about you. All for the price of an extra bowl of oatmeal in the morning. That's kids. Why anyone wouldn't want to have as many as possible is beyond me.