As someone questioning my gender identity, I hate BLM with a passion. Evangelicals who may believe that being LGBTQ is a sin are oftentimes good people who love God and America; and they are peaceful.
Now BLM and a concerning percentage of Muslims do not like LGBTQ people. I am afraid now more than ever because being black would let someone get away from beating me up if I crossdress (and try to make an effort to pass as a girl).
Intersectionality is a capricious sysyem that substitutes justice with whatever feelings a mob has at some point in time. It's truly something our society needs to reject for the safety of all and the rule of law.
The rejection of American culture really strikes me as ignorant. My brother and I (about the same age) were talking about a year ago about our friends growing up. It just so happened I had friends who were brought up in more religious and conservative households, and I think it kept me from developing the kind of Us vs Them mentality that my older brother had to dispell himself of later on. It's ironic how belief is ingrained in some anti-religion folks, when one of their arguments is "the religious people just believe what their parents believe" and yet by holding such a black and white view of others, they are ultimately just holding something in their minds as truth, when it's actually just a belief.
As for your gender identity, I could certainly relate to that in the past and hope you are doing well! I found crossdressing was always a source of joy and levity.
good to have another CD/Trans around here. I just started HRT this year. Gun rights have always been huge with me but even more so knowing that I am a bigger target for some people. Let me know if you have any questions, I will be happy to answer anything.
I am not sure if I will ever transition and I can’t start CD until I move out. But, the thing is that I’m straight despite my distress over my gender so dating will not be easy.
Okay I'm genuinely curious and not judging. You're a man who likes women and feels like a woman, right? So basically you're a lesbian trapped in a man's body. How far are you planning to transition? Specifically, are you going to keep your dick? Do you even like having a dick?
I don’t know if I’m going to transition because when you’re on the spectrum, one hidden side effect is that you may identify with the opposite gender but if you transition it may flip flop and I do not want to take that risk.
I hate my deep voice, facial/body hair, and masculine bone structure/figure the absolute most.
If I don’t transition, I may look at hair removal, certain diets/exercises to change my shape, and mild crossdressing with modest blouses, scarves, cardigans, etc. and pantsuits; while wearing makeup.
best of luck to you! Its hard being a young CD'er, trying to date and being stealth about it. Ive been there, the best advice that I have for you is to have fun with it. There were times that I was ashamed of it and spent a lot of time and effort trying to hide it. Have fun and best of luck to you! Like I said, if you have any questions I am happy to answer!
As someone questioning my gender identity, I hate BLM with a passion. Evangelicals who may believe that being LGBTQ is a sin are oftentimes good people who love God and America; and they are peaceful.
Now BLM and a concerning percentage of Muslims do not like LGBTQ people. I am afraid now more than ever because being black would let someone get away from beating me up if I crossdress (and try to make an effort to pass as a girl).
Intersectionality is a capricious sysyem that substitutes justice with whatever feelings a mob has at some point in time. It's truly something our society needs to reject for the safety of all and the rule of law.
The rejection of American culture really strikes me as ignorant. My brother and I (about the same age) were talking about a year ago about our friends growing up. It just so happened I had friends who were brought up in more religious and conservative households, and I think it kept me from developing the kind of Us vs Them mentality that my older brother had to dispell himself of later on. It's ironic how belief is ingrained in some anti-religion folks, when one of their arguments is "the religious people just believe what their parents believe" and yet by holding such a black and white view of others, they are ultimately just holding something in their minds as truth, when it's actually just a belief.
As for your gender identity, I could certainly relate to that in the past and hope you are doing well! I found crossdressing was always a source of joy and levity.
good to have another CD/Trans around here. I just started HRT this year. Gun rights have always been huge with me but even more so knowing that I am a bigger target for some people. Let me know if you have any questions, I will be happy to answer anything.
I am not sure if I will ever transition and I can’t start CD until I move out. But, the thing is that I’m straight despite my distress over my gender so dating will not be easy.
Okay I'm genuinely curious and not judging. You're a man who likes women and feels like a woman, right? So basically you're a lesbian trapped in a man's body. How far are you planning to transition? Specifically, are you going to keep your dick? Do you even like having a dick?
I don’t know if I’m going to transition because when you’re on the spectrum, one hidden side effect is that you may identify with the opposite gender but if you transition it may flip flop and I do not want to take that risk.
I hate my deep voice, facial/body hair, and masculine bone structure/figure the absolute most.
If I don’t transition, I may look at hair removal, certain diets/exercises to change my shape, and mild crossdressing with modest blouses, scarves, cardigans, etc. and pantsuits; while wearing makeup.
best of luck to you! Its hard being a young CD'er, trying to date and being stealth about it. Ive been there, the best advice that I have for you is to have fun with it. There were times that I was ashamed of it and spent a lot of time and effort trying to hide it. Have fun and best of luck to you! Like I said, if you have any questions I am happy to answer!
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