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RenaissanceOfHope 2 points ago +2 / -0

I am not sure if I will ever transition and I can’t start CD until I move out. But, the thing is that I’m straight despite my distress over my gender so dating will not be easy.

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chewsoap 1 point ago +1 / -0

Okay I'm genuinely curious and not judging. You're a man who likes women and feels like a woman, right? So basically you're a lesbian trapped in a man's body. How far are you planning to transition? Specifically, are you going to keep your dick? Do you even like having a dick?

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RenaissanceOfHope 1 point ago +1 / -0

I don’t know if I’m going to transition because when you’re on the spectrum, one hidden side effect is that you may identify with the opposite gender but if you transition it may flip flop and I do not want to take that risk.

I hate my deep voice, facial/body hair, and masculine bone structure/figure the absolute most.

If I don’t transition, I may look at hair removal, certain diets/exercises to change my shape, and mild crossdressing with modest blouses, scarves, cardigans, etc. and pantsuits; while wearing makeup.

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Transpede 1 point ago +1 / -0

best of luck to you! Its hard being a young CD'er, trying to date and being stealth about it. Ive been there, the best advice that I have for you is to have fun with it. There were times that I was ashamed of it and spent a lot of time and effort trying to hide it. Have fun and best of luck to you! Like I said, if you have any questions I am happy to answer!

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RenaissanceOfHope 2 points ago +2 / -0

How do you PM someone on TD?