From a young age, you're told what to do, what to think, how to act...
When you fail, you're harshly punished. When someone is able to parrot the teacher, they are incredibly rewarded. Success is easy - just remember what you're told.
There is no psychological safety net to fail. People don't want to fail, they want a plan. They want someone to tell them what to do. They want easy success.
But success isn't easy a lot of the time.
Fuck me man, it's the schools. People need to learn to fail. Look at all the mental illness and anxiety. Its because they can't hardly handle being human, let alone failure.
I really think it's the education system.
From a young age, you're told what to do, what to think, how to act... When you fail, you're harshly punished. When someone is able to parrot the teacher, they are incredibly rewarded. Success is easy - just remember what you're told.
There is no psychological safety net to fail. People don't want to fail, they want a plan. They want someone to tell them what to do. They want easy success.
But success isn't easy a lot of the time.
Fuck me man, it's the schools. People need to learn to fail. Look at all the mental illness and anxiety. Its because they can't hardly handle being human, let alone failure.
No this shit develops well before they’re 2 years old. The educational system caters to it. And I’m not saying it’s not their fault.