Thank you and sorry about your sister, losing a sibling is the worst. And I only had one, miss him everyday as much as we didnt get along.

I'm going to be an asshole (what I'm good at) and ashes in a necklace it the same as wearing their ear on a string. Its gross, I won't have it, and fuck anyone that disagree's.

I have zero issue of an urn on the mantle, as long as they stay whole. Also I would rather be scattered in the ocean, return to nature