That's simply not true. I'm an atheist, but I was raised in a Catholic family. I know the history of it, because our family went to the priests to see if it was allowed. The Vatican allowed it back in the 60's - and allowed it sometimes before that. And, they preferred that it happen after the services, and the ashes buried, not scattered.
My mother, who was a member of the Catholic Church, got last rites from her priest, who officiated her service with the urn. No problems. He did make some remarks that they (the Vatican) look down on that thing of dividing ashes among family members, my dumb sister wanted to have Xmas ornaments made (such a fucking creepy thing). He said he'd overlook it but didn't want to hear about it.
Sorry about your bro, I lost my sister, too. When we were at the funeral home the ppl asked if we wanted some ashes into necklaces and my mom was like absolutely not! She said she worked with a guy that had his kids ashes on a necklace and he always looked miserable and it just made her want to cry everytime she saw him in the hallway.
Thank you and sorry about your sister, losing a sibling is the worst. And I only had one, miss him everyday as much as we didnt get along.
I'm going to be an asshole (what I'm good at) and ashes in a necklace it the same as wearing their ear on a string. Its gross, I won't have it, and fuck anyone that disagree's.
I have zero issue of an urn on the mantle, as long as they stay whole. Also I would rather be scattered in the ocean, return to nature
That's simply not true. I'm an atheist, but I was raised in a Catholic family. I know the history of it, because our family went to the priests to see if it was allowed. The Vatican allowed it back in the 60's - and allowed it sometimes before that. And, they preferred that it happen after the services, and the ashes buried, not scattered. My mother, who was a member of the Catholic Church, got last rites from her priest, who officiated her service with the urn. No problems. He did make some remarks that they (the Vatican) look down on that thing of dividing ashes among family members, my dumb sister wanted to have Xmas ornaments made (such a fucking creepy thing). He said he'd overlook it but didn't want to hear about it.
Got to plus 1 this as a Catholic. We incinerated my brother and Ma thought it was a good idea to make necklaces from his ashes. Fucking creepy!
I never accepted the necklace, pissed her off and I don't care.
Sorry about your bro, I lost my sister, too. When we were at the funeral home the ppl asked if we wanted some ashes into necklaces and my mom was like absolutely not! She said she worked with a guy that had his kids ashes on a necklace and he always looked miserable and it just made her want to cry everytime she saw him in the hallway.
Thank you and sorry about your sister, losing a sibling is the worst. And I only had one, miss him everyday as much as we didnt get along.
I'm going to be an asshole (what I'm good at) and ashes in a necklace it the same as wearing their ear on a string. Its gross, I won't have it, and fuck anyone that disagree's.
I have zero issue of an urn on the mantle, as long as they stay whole. Also I would rather be scattered in the ocean, return to nature