You can be a good dad and not be legally allowed to be in your child’s life. Women initiate 80% of divorces and everyone knows a guy fucked over by the courts in favor of a trashy woman bc she has a vagina
Yeah, I'll definitely admit that women are just as responsible as men when it comes to them being single mothers. I know a few cases where the mother just didn't want the father to see the child. It is like the woman is in denial, thinks sex doesn't have any consequences, and gets rid of the guy because in her eyes he ruined her life. At this point the father can take it to court, but that is time and money for something that he will probably not win anyway. It is just easier to walk away, which is what most guys do.
Well, it is easy to be a father once you figure out how to get laid. But to be a good father all you have to do is just give a shit about your kid. Like if you are a lazy fuck who doesn't do much, you don't really have to change your routine to spend time with the kids. Just make sure they are doing their homework, staying out of trouble, and try to have some idea as to what they are interested in. I mean, typically if you are socially competent enough to manage to get a woman pregnant then you are socially competent enough to raise a child.
Africans didn't figure out animal husbandry until it was introduced to them from abroad. When they did start doing it, they didn't breed cows for food or anything like that, they bred them for this.
It all started with rap music. Initially, it was based on funk/disco tracks, but then came the NWA and "gangster rap," and prison culture became mainstream.
There's a lot of evidence that the CIA/Deep-State were responsible for flooding urban communities with crack-cocaine in the 80's, and fueling prison culture. (Ultimately, creating what we now refer to as the "Democrat Plantation," where nobody escapes.)
Knowing what we know now about Hollywood, it wouldn't surprise me at all to learn that prison culture was intentionally introduced (and now dominates) mainstream American pop culture, by Deep State faggots.
You've got it backwards. The culture you aren't opposed to was one where they were tightly moderated and controlled. The one you don't like is what happens when the chains come off.
-A value system (currency) based on "Respect" (aka "Juice")
-Gang hierarchy determined by level of "Respect" that has been earned through actions. (aka "Juice")
-Loyalty to a gang (and associated hierarchy) supersedes all rules/laws
-"Respect" earned through ability to intimidate, command respect through force, and willingness to engage in "high-risk behavior," particularly unlawful activities
-Proclivity to dominate woman and "inferior" males, particularly those that reject "Prison Culture" system of values (i.e. business owners and up-standing citizens)
-Rejection of all conventional norms related to honor, integrity, hard-work, and character (now classified as "white culture," though denigrated by all races that embrace prison culture ethos)
This value system was developed in an environment where lawful free-market economy is non-existent, and where rules/regulations are HIGHLY moderated. (i.e. Marxist utopia) So naturally, they had to come up with a way to determine pecking order. Violence and strength become the primary metric for establishing social hierarchy, with a limited black-market economy forming that naturally favors the strong and immoral.
Then these people leave prison, and bring that value-system with them to the streets.
Make no mistake, it is prison culture. Right down to the baggy pants and the hatred of police/authority.
There was a great scene in The Wire during Season 4. In this scene a group of students (black) are separated from their peers because their behavior tends to disrupt the other students. In this new class, it's part run by a former Baltimore City Police Commander. During one session they get the students in small groups to build a famous structure (Big Ben, Eiffel Tower, etc.) without the instructions. One team wins and their prize is a nice dinner with the teacher in a downtown steak house.
When the students arrive they are culturally and almost feel alienated. They are not use to somewhat fine dining like they don't know what rare, medium rare, etc. means on a steak. One of them just wants a burger with fries. After the meal as they are walking out they feel all embarrassed, insecure or just defeated cause they know their "hard ass" look won't work at a place like that.
The next day the students ask them how it went they were all gloating about how it was great and how they ate everything and such. Just an example of how they want to look all bad ass in front of their peers just to gain street cred.
Long story but what the person above posted reminded me of that scene.
The fathers need to stay with and support their kids, and the mothers need to stop chasing them off. Both parents need to be responsible. Government can never take that role.
Couldn't agree more. And the legal system shouldn't give women the option to at-will eject the man and take half his stuff and half his salary and ban him from seeing his kids.
It's a two-way problem. If it were just an issue with men, men would eventually step up and figure it out.
Problem is that there is no strong incentive in places like the Black community for fathers to stick around. Sleeping around is easy and there are serious penalties associated with marriage. Women can destroy a man's life and collect goodies in the process. Why would a man sign up for that if he wasn't 100% sure about his woman?
Until we figure out how to return the prestige of traditional marriage it will be a perpetual problem.
It's the start of it, but it's not just limited to that. The welfare state made it possible to continue extra-marital parenting even when that birth control failed.
End the hand out and encourage nuclear families - what a radical way of thinking.
Programs to help should be run on a much more local level. Charities that know the load that they can manage, churches, some local government assistance. How the heck is a federally or even state run program supposed to really care if its being abused? They dont know and dont care.
Asians, Indians, and Jews are just people. They aren't inherently bad. They just happen to be groups that are very successful in capitalist societies due to the highly advantageous and beneficial cultural norms they've passed down through generations.
Jews comprise a very small minority in hollywood, goldman, and the larger sex trafficking issues that plague our country. India is a shithole country, and Asia is hit or miss.
I think you might be seeing these minorities as a scary boogeyman because you don't know many people who belong to those groups, so you don't understand them. Elites. That's the word you're looking for. Elites.
Elites run hollywood, goldman, and run child sex trafficking rings.
There are lots of fathers out there who want to "do the right thing" but are family courts have been taken over by the marxists. Living in NJ, I had a TV knowledge of our family court. It wasnt until I went through my own divorce that I got first hand knowledge of how screwed up our family courts are and how punishing they are to fathers. This goes even for fathers who want a relationship with their children and financially support them. The system is way biased against fathers and there is no easy way to correct the system as the lawyers have the politicians in their back pocket.
A lot of this problem comes down to the idea of toxic masculinity and the consant push by academia and schools to engrain a genuine distaste among men for their own innate drive to be good fathers, to take part in society, and to take on responsibility. The guilt being forced into the minds of young men for being young men makes them question their primordial wish to have a family and be good men is a sick and deranged method of destroying our culture. We have to stop it. To all the other men out there, mentor other young men and expect high levels of behavior for your sons and their friends. The only way to beat back the guilt being instilled in our young men is to meet that hate with masculinity and strength. The young men today need role models more than ever. Be one.
They want all of the benefits, none of the responsibility. It's for this reason I'm a strong advocate for removing any unearned rights and privileges. You want rights and privileges? Get a job, or get married. Quit mooching off of Men and Taxpayers.
If fathers could do what they're supposed to do without facing imprisonment and financial ruin, half of the ones who don't do what they are supposed to, would start.
A lot rests in the hands of women as well. Having children with men who are not in a stable relationship. Being the top reason the father isn't in the childs life. From not requiring it to actively pushing the father out. With courts backing it up.
The men have responsibility too, but more rests in the hands of women for these factors.
Let me also add a genetic father can be replaced if they are absent by a strong male presence and family. While the dad needs to man up, the mother can also find a strong man. They can also make sure family is involved and the child spends time with a positive male role model.
One good example. Requesting a male teacher instead of them only having female teachers. Being part of a church with a Youth Pastor. Being part of a team with a good couch.
I have memories from my childhood of my father, a trooper for 20 years, trying his damndest to educate my adult half-sisters on what children need to be successful in this world. He often repeated the line “A child needs both a mother and a father.”
I think that's a little too harsh. It isn't that they see responsibility and shirk it off, but what we call "responsibility" is invisible to them. It literally just wouldn't occur to them to do certain things like have a nuclear family without heavy, heavy outside pressure from a predominantly European society. We can observe this in Western and Central African cultures, which are practically identical.
and the community needs to help waman choose the good fathers
subvert community, then the women have no & malevolent guidance, then the family dies, and the lives stuck in perpetual adolescence reliant on the government sky rockets.
When most ghetto dads value the parenting that happens after conception instead of the parenting that happens up to conception - that will make a big difference.
I'm a jew. I know plenty of super based Asian and Indian Americans and Jews. What you call nepotism, I might consider looking our for your own. When a mom n pop hardware store has their son run the register, that's not nepotism, that's a family business. That's a beautiful thing.
And if females were more responsible, the other half of the problem wouldn't exist either.
oh boy you'll be waiting a long time
Good fathers create responsible females.
You can be a good dad and not be legally allowed to be in your child’s life. Women initiate 80% of divorces and everyone knows a guy fucked over by the courts in favor of a trashy woman bc she has a vagina
Yeah, I'll definitely admit that women are just as responsible as men when it comes to them being single mothers. I know a few cases where the mother just didn't want the father to see the child. It is like the woman is in denial, thinks sex doesn't have any consequences, and gets rid of the guy because in her eyes he ruined her life. At this point the father can take it to court, but that is time and money for something that he will probably not win anyway. It is just easier to walk away, which is what most guys do.
Amen!
How do they become fathers in the first place?
Well, it is easy to be a father once you figure out how to get laid. But to be a good father all you have to do is just give a shit about your kid. Like if you are a lazy fuck who doesn't do much, you don't really have to change your routine to spend time with the kids. Just make sure they are doing their homework, staying out of trouble, and try to have some idea as to what they are interested in. I mean, typically if you are socially competent enough to manage to get a woman pregnant then you are socially competent enough to raise a child.
black males are too busy trying to posture and impress other black males to "prove" who is the baddest, hardest, and most care-free.
it's all very, very fucking gay. everything they do is to show a certain image to other blacks with dicks.
Africans didn't figure out animal husbandry until it was introduced to them from abroad. When they did start doing it, they didn't breed cows for food or anything like that, they bred them for this.
safe click, Safe for work, would be safe for a Kindergarten classroom.
My neighbor who teaches kindergarten is probably going to show this to her class tomorrow.
Risky click of the day... turned out better than expected
It's prison culture.
It all started with rap music. Initially, it was based on funk/disco tracks, but then came the NWA and "gangster rap," and prison culture became mainstream.
There's a lot of evidence that the CIA/Deep-State were responsible for flooding urban communities with crack-cocaine in the 80's, and fueling prison culture. (Ultimately, creating what we now refer to as the "Democrat Plantation," where nobody escapes.)
Knowing what we know now about Hollywood, it wouldn't surprise me at all to learn that prison culture was intentionally introduced (and now dominates) mainstream American pop culture, by Deep State faggots.
You've got it backwards. The culture you aren't opposed to was one where they were tightly moderated and controlled. The one you don't like is what happens when the chains come off.
"Prison Culture"
-A value system (currency) based on "Respect" (aka "Juice")
-Gang hierarchy determined by level of "Respect" that has been earned through actions. (aka "Juice")
-Loyalty to a gang (and associated hierarchy) supersedes all rules/laws
-"Respect" earned through ability to intimidate, command respect through force, and willingness to engage in "high-risk behavior," particularly unlawful activities
-Proclivity to dominate woman and "inferior" males, particularly those that reject "Prison Culture" system of values (i.e. business owners and up-standing citizens)
-Rejection of all conventional norms related to honor, integrity, hard-work, and character (now classified as "white culture," though denigrated by all races that embrace prison culture ethos)
This value system was developed in an environment where lawful free-market economy is non-existent, and where rules/regulations are HIGHLY moderated. (i.e. Marxist utopia) So naturally, they had to come up with a way to determine pecking order. Violence and strength become the primary metric for establishing social hierarchy, with a limited black-market economy forming that naturally favors the strong and immoral.
Then these people leave prison, and bring that value-system with them to the streets.
Make no mistake, it is prison culture. Right down to the baggy pants and the hatred of police/authority.
There was a great scene in The Wire during Season 4. In this scene a group of students (black) are separated from their peers because their behavior tends to disrupt the other students. In this new class, it's part run by a former Baltimore City Police Commander. During one session they get the students in small groups to build a famous structure (Big Ben, Eiffel Tower, etc.) without the instructions. One team wins and their prize is a nice dinner with the teacher in a downtown steak house.
When the students arrive they are culturally and almost feel alienated. They are not use to somewhat fine dining like they don't know what rare, medium rare, etc. means on a steak. One of them just wants a burger with fries. After the meal as they are walking out they feel all embarrassed, insecure or just defeated cause they know their "hard ass" look won't work at a place like that.
The next day the students ask them how it went they were all gloating about how it was great and how they ate everything and such. Just an example of how they want to look all bad ass in front of their peers just to gain street cred.
Long story but what the person above posted reminded me of that scene.
Sounds like the Obamas.
They are always claiming they are down with struggle and the next day eating good in the neighborhood with celebrities.
They don't look polished at either because they are fake and disingenuous. They are not confident in themselves and are always pretending.
Big Mike loves to think he is oppressed while sitting in her multi million dollar home in Martha's Vineyard.
african animals are more aggressive
The fathers need to stay with and support their kids, and the mothers need to stop chasing them off. Both parents need to be responsible. Government can never take that role.
Couldn't agree more. And the legal system shouldn't give women the option to at-will eject the man and take half his stuff and half his salary and ban him from seeing his kids.
No-fault divorce needs to be done away with.
I mean, let's be real, by and large these people aren't getting divorced. They're never even getting married to begin with.
Government tried, starting in the 60’s with LBJ’s “War on Poverty”. Poverty is winning.
On the contrary, it's when the government doesn't control them that they become this way. LAW AND ORDER.
But then the gov't checks stop coming. This was all engineered by Democrat administrations.
That's why they rail against the "patriarchy" and call masculinity toxic.
It's a two-way problem. If it were just an issue with men, men would eventually step up and figure it out.
Problem is that there is no strong incentive in places like the Black community for fathers to stick around. Sleeping around is easy and there are serious penalties associated with marriage. Women can destroy a man's life and collect goodies in the process. Why would a man sign up for that if he wasn't 100% sure about his woman?
Until we figure out how to return the prestige of traditional marriage it will be a perpetual problem.
Birth control is responsible for the problems you are citing.
It's the start of it, but it's not just limited to that. The welfare state made it possible to continue extra-marital parenting even when that birth control failed.
You right.
End welfare, end child support. Boom! Traditional marriage returns.
Good luck getting those changes past a 56% female electorate.
And if the government wasn't so busy destroying the family unit, fathers would stand a chance.
End the hand out and encourage nuclear families - what a radical way of thinking.
Programs to help should be run on a much more local level. Charities that know the load that they can manage, churches, some local government assistance. How the heck is a federally or even state run program supposed to really care if its being abused? They dont know and dont care.
You know who focuses a lot on the family unit, prioritizing education, and being industrious at work?
Asian Americans, Indian Americans, Jews.
Those are historically oppressed, but astoundingly successful minority groups in our great nation.
You've clearly never worked alongside them to any large degree. They don't work hard, they cheat and practice nepotism without a hint of remorse.
Never worked along side who? Who is "them"?
The groups you cited.
Asians, Indians, and Jews are just people. They aren't inherently bad. They just happen to be groups that are very successful in capitalist societies due to the highly advantageous and beneficial cultural norms they've passed down through generations.
Agreed. Hollywood, Goldman Sachs, and child sex trafficking are examples of these benefits.
Jews comprise a very small minority in hollywood, goldman, and the larger sex trafficking issues that plague our country. India is a shithole country, and Asia is hit or miss.
I think you might be seeing these minorities as a scary boogeyman because you don't know many people who belong to those groups, so you don't understand them. Elites. That's the word you're looking for. Elites.
Elites run hollywood, goldman, and run child sex trafficking rings.
There are lots of fathers out there who want to "do the right thing" but are family courts have been taken over by the marxists. Living in NJ, I had a TV knowledge of our family court. It wasnt until I went through my own divorce that I got first hand knowledge of how screwed up our family courts are and how punishing they are to fathers. This goes even for fathers who want a relationship with their children and financially support them. The system is way biased against fathers and there is no easy way to correct the system as the lawyers have the politicians in their back pocket.
Mothers too.
Outta here with your European Colonialist Ideaologies! /s
I HATE seeing women emasculate men and men that don't cultivate their inherent "manliness." Subverting nature never works.
God bless Fathers!
No father = crime, drug use, homosexuality, socialism, and suicide.
A lot of this problem comes down to the idea of toxic masculinity and the consant push by academia and schools to engrain a genuine distaste among men for their own innate drive to be good fathers, to take part in society, and to take on responsibility. The guilt being forced into the minds of young men for being young men makes them question their primordial wish to have a family and be good men is a sick and deranged method of destroying our culture. We have to stop it. To all the other men out there, mentor other young men and expect high levels of behavior for your sons and their friends. The only way to beat back the guilt being instilled in our young men is to meet that hate with masculinity and strength. The young men today need role models more than ever. Be one.
Or, you know, if the mothers didn't just DUMP the men they got pregnant with and tried to raise their kids as SINGLE MOTHERS.
But the state awards them cash and prizes when they do.
Birth control causes this problem.
They want all of the benefits, none of the responsibility. It's for this reason I'm a strong advocate for removing any unearned rights and privileges. You want rights and privileges? Get a job, or get married. Quit mooching off of Men and Taxpayers.
My parents have been married for over 40 years.
I, and my brother, have no criminal history at all.
If fathers could do what they're supposed to do without facing imprisonment and financial ruin, half of the ones who don't do what they are supposed to, would start.
Yes sir. Amen
You can't say this!! It's racist and sExiSt!!
A lot rests in the hands of women as well. Having children with men who are not in a stable relationship. Being the top reason the father isn't in the childs life. From not requiring it to actively pushing the father out. With courts backing it up.
The men have responsibility too, but more rests in the hands of women for these factors.
Let me also add a genetic father can be replaced if they are absent by a strong male presence and family. While the dad needs to man up, the mother can also find a strong man. They can also make sure family is involved and the child spends time with a positive male role model.
One good example. Requesting a male teacher instead of them only having female teachers. Being part of a church with a Youth Pastor. Being part of a team with a good couch.
These are all things that can be done.
And there it is.
Too many fathers are passive and let their wives do everything. Soyboys by another name. They need to lead and guide.
Yes sir
"Where men refuse to step into the role of men as outlined in the Bible, the world burns"
Matt Chandler, pastor
Not only fathers, but men in general!
Family court is fucked up beyond belief. First step needs to be supporting good fathers before worrying about the intentional deadbeats.
I have memories from my childhood of my father, a trooper for 20 years, trying his damndest to educate my adult half-sisters on what children need to be successful in this world. He often repeated the line “A child needs both a mother and a father.”
We have a higher calling than I thought going in.
The stats on life outcomes for dadless kids are just depressing.
I think that's a little too harsh. It isn't that they see responsibility and shirk it off, but what we call "responsibility" is invisible to them. It literally just wouldn't occur to them to do certain things like have a nuclear family without heavy, heavy outside pressure from a predominantly European society. We can observe this in Western and Central African cultures, which are practically identical.
don't forget the waman gotta choose good fathers
and the community needs to help waman choose the good fathers
subvert community, then the women have no & malevolent guidance, then the family dies, and the lives stuck in perpetual adolescence reliant on the government sky rockets.
When most ghetto dads value the parenting that happens after conception instead of the parenting that happens up to conception - that will make a big difference.
He's right you know. Some light reading for you, pedes:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_matriarchy
They're the ideal libtards
I'm a jew. I know plenty of super based Asian and Indian Americans and Jews. What you call nepotism, I might consider looking our for your own. When a mom n pop hardware store has their son run the register, that's not nepotism, that's a family business. That's a beautiful thing.
Yeah, a mafia is also a family business 😅
Alright that one made me lol