A lot of this problem comes down to the idea of toxic masculinity and the consant push by academia and schools to engrain a genuine distaste among men for their own innate drive to be good fathers, to take part in society, and to take on responsibility. The guilt being forced into the minds of young men for being young men makes them question their primordial wish to have a family and be good men is a sick and deranged method of destroying our culture. We have to stop it. To all the other men out there, mentor other young men and expect high levels of behavior for your sons and their friends. The only way to beat back the guilt being instilled in our young men is to meet that hate with masculinity and strength. The young men today need role models more than ever. Be one.