A lot rests in the hands of women as well. Having children with men who are not in a stable relationship. Being the top reason the father isn't in the childs life. From not requiring it to actively pushing the father out. With courts backing it up.

The men have responsibility too, but more rests in the hands of women for these factors.

Let me also add a genetic father can be replaced if they are absent by a strong male presence and family. While the dad needs to man up, the mother can also find a strong man. They can also make sure family is involved and the child spends time with a positive male role model.

One good example. Requesting a male teacher instead of them only having female teachers. Being part of a church with a Youth Pastor. Being part of a team with a good couch.

These are all things that can be done.