I'm trying to keep strong here at work as I notice I'm being locked out of shared accounts as we speak. Also trying not to come off to you all like a weak baby, but maybe that's how I feel right now.
You're legally married. She cannot lock you out of shared accounts in most states. I am sorry you messed up, I am sorry it happened. The correct course of action would have been couples therapy and substance treatment for you.
That didn't happen. However, it appears there was a lot of toxicity in your relationship and that rarely comes only from one side.
You need to hire a lawyer as soon as possible. There is a legal process that people need to go through. Most states have it streamlined. It doesn't matter if you had a beer. It doesn't matter if you drank a beer while having sex with her sister.
There are still things that need to be followed. You need to protect your rights.
Mine manipulated me via marriage counseling to finally put her name on my checking acct. I agreed and she looked like she had seen a ghost when we walked outside (w the benefit of hindsight, her mind was blown w what she had just accomplished.)
Summarily drained my checking and left me w a couch and TV. And I would STILL do it all over again bc had to go through that to know to NEVER DATE A LIBERAL AGAIN.
You're legally married. She cannot lock you out of shared accounts in most states. I am sorry you messed up, I am sorry it happened. The correct course of action would have been couples therapy and substance treatment for you.
That didn't happen. However, it appears there was a lot of toxicity in your relationship and that rarely comes only from one side.
You need to hire a lawyer as soon as possible. There is a legal process that people need to go through. Most states have it streamlined. It doesn't matter if you had a beer. It doesn't matter if you drank a beer while having sex with her sister.
There are still things that need to be followed. You need to protect your rights.
Mine manipulated me via marriage counseling to finally put her name on my checking acct. I agreed and she looked like she had seen a ghost when we walked outside (w the benefit of hindsight, her mind was blown w what she had just accomplished.)
Summarily drained my checking and left me w a couch and TV. And I would STILL do it all over again bc had to go through that to know to NEVER DATE A LIBERAL AGAIN.