To each their own, but just visited that sub to see what you were talking about, and it is woefully underwhelming. In response to militant feminism, some men decided to surrender. I don't see any victory in that, or personal or societal benefit.

Any reward requires sacrifice, and personal relationships are no different. I am not saying one should marry a feminist,(that is obviously a path towards hell on earth). But when you are 70 years old, and living by yourself, with no wife, no children, no family and playing video games and attempting to hang out with others in similar positions no longer carries the excitement it once did, I don't think you will find life so fulfilling.