Interesting read, and to me embodies the position of "white male":

You can berate us, push us, tax us, and while we may mutter, we'll take it and continue to be civil and mannerly. But don't interpret that acquiescence as agreement or acceptance. We simply don't like conflict. However, we absorb and remember it all. So go ahead, keep chipping away: when that dam of patience finally breaks, there will be no stopping that righteous fury and the absolute decimation that follows.

Or in a nutshell: "boy, don't make me come over there."