Actually really good point here, this is how I consciously think about my interactions with these people but I've never described it as well as you've done here.
Another part of it is that they also have interpreted the facts and come to the same outcome as us, however they lie to themselves and others to cover up those facts, which is why they see black people as poor and pathetic, and when you call then out they think you're not supposed to do that. It's why they embrace the white privilege and guilt narrative, because they're 100% guilty and when they see us reject it, they think it's because we've come to the same conclusion but decided that we don't care.
Actually really good point here, this is how I consciously think about my interactions with these people but I've never described it as well as you've done here.
Another part of it is that they also have interpreted the facts and come to the same outcome as us, however they lie to themselves and others to cover up those facts, which is why they see black people as poor and pathetic, and when you call then out they think you're not supposed to do that. It's why they embrace the white privilege and guilt narrative, because they're 100% guilty and when they see us reject it, they think it's because we've come to the same conclusion but decided that we don't care.