<====== Give her advice fellow Pedes. SALT
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posted ago by BeijingBiden
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Talk to him.
LISTEN.
You'd be surprised how many people don't do this.
But...but....I gotta scroll IG instead
Here's my advice, but for the guy:
GET. OUT. NOW.
She votes the D and takes the conservative D.
"don't want to be a brat and make this a dealbreaker" = 100% Trump voter gives it to her good and she can't quit.
You’d be surprised how many women in SF tell me they only date conservatives. I’m like duh we’re more fun
Her boyfriend is playing with fire.
He’s not being very smart at all.
He’s probably used to Woke Phishing
STFU and make him a sandwich.
Slap her w that bologna
You're a fucking white male!
-betacuck4lyfe AidskrilleX
You're fucking a white male!
They all asleep KEK
Nobody should ever say "what are everyone's thoughts about....," about anything.
Ask your parents. Maybe a sibling. Maybe a pastor. If you have a life problem. But not your entire social media list.
Know your mind or hide under the bed.
Can you imagine her asking everyone's thoughts about if she should sleep with the milkman? Who's nice and keeps asking, and her husband is so tired lately and never talks anymore?
It is better to be wrong and strong, than weak like this. She is treacherous. She is married to her friends. She wants their permission to go further with this guy!
If the guy sees this, THAT IS THE PART that is the deal breaker. Not even Trump. The guy should have got this worked out in the first half hour. He can never get those six wasted months back. He has wasted time and he will now be more jaded and bitter.
Terrible.
We need matchmakers.
Lmao I know I could never understand why people go to socials for such personal feedback so publicly
Bruh haha I’m ded
We're all alphas. We all most likely have good, stable jobs. We'll provide for you and our offspring.
They hate to love us
This attention whore needs to see the light or let the man go. Otherwise she’ll be aborting his kids within a couple of years.
If not already :(
Taking bets on who aborts first, him or her!
TRANSITIONING
take her to a rally.
This reminds me of a lesson once taught to me by a Buddhist monk in South Korea. To briefly summarize - imagine someone writes you a check for a million dollars, puts it in envelope and tapes it to your back, but you don't know it's there. You feel poor, because you don't know that you're wealthy. Then someone draws your attention to it, and suddenly you feel rich . . . even though in reality nothing has changed but your own mind. Enlightenment is like this. You're not being given something that you didn't already have.
The moral of this story is that the obstacle that came between this woman and her boyfriend is not his point of view, it's hers.
"All the happiness there is in this world comes from thinking about others, and all the suffering comes from preoccupation with yourself." - Śāntideva, The Way of the Bodhisattva
I wish I could give this a million likes. It’s so true!
This monk has the right idea, but It's a flawed lesson to the next degree. While yes, you haven't changed because you found the check taped to your back, your mind HAS changed, immediately, because it now knows that financial stress is a thing of the past (to most responsible adults, that is).
And that right there? That loss of stress? Enlightening!
I'm not a Buddhist teacher, he expressed the concept more eloquently than I. It hearkens back to that old saw: change comes from within. I think of this principle every time I see an offended leftist freak out. It's like complaining that I'm having a bad day because it's raining... what's really causing me grief is not the rain, it's the wallowing in self pity. The problem isn't "out there" somewhere, and neither is the solution. When you understand that your mental/emotional/spiritual state isn't dependent on external events, even though it may be influenced by them, it's like putting on a suit of armor. We have tremendous power to improve our experience of the world simply by changing our attitudes and liberating ourselves from ego. What was enlightening for me was the realization that it is, in fact, a choice I can make. I am the master of my own house. I have been all along, I just didn't know it. It's still raining, but by deliberately looking on the bright side of life instead of shaking my fist at the sky, suddenly I'm not having a bad day anymore. That's what makes the difference between a victim and a survivor.
"Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself." - Rumi
Lmao she is in such denial, she knows that she likes him but her brainwashing has kicked in and is telling her what is “best” for her. She needs to think about how she feels about this guy; does he treat her good? Does he have good values? Would he make a good father/husband? Of course he will because he’s a conservative. Women need to quit listening to the hive mind and go with their natural born feminine instincts which is to find a suitable husband and father to their children.
"I want a bf who's an alpha but who will also kneel for blm and simp for a dementia patient bcuz muh ornj man bad"
Hahahahaha the “pErFecT” man doesn’t exist
Dementia Man has been around 180 years. Gotta have some saggy balls by now. Do you think she's still into that?
I feel sorry for the guy, you know she's fantasizing Joe smelling her hair and asking how old she is.
She’s too old for tweakerJoe
She can say she's 7 if she wants to, RBG said so!
Eat shit. Die. Go to hell.
Honestly... look fat: Politics and religion are HUGE factors in a relationship. They are deal breakers, by their definition. You MUST have the big, basic things in common with your partner or else it is gonna fail.
Now... Is politics THAT big of a deal to you? Is it that big of a deal to him? You have to discuss, and find that out first. You know the stats show that most married women end up turning conservative just via the fact they are married and get older, right? This shows that, politics can change, but not necessarily for those who it is a MAJOR DEAL.
So you must find that out. And if it is a huge deal to both of you, break it off. You both will be better off that way. Now, some partners really do not give a fuck at all, and then their partner can sway them. You might have a chance in this scenario. But talk, be honest with yourself, and be honest with your partner.
Another thing to keep in mind - think hard, REAL HARD, on whether politics is that important, or if it is just this election. Because if politics is super important to you, remember that this happens EVERY 4 YEARS!!! Every 8 if you're realistic and look at incumbent reelection rates.
Values, not POLITICS, MUST align in a relationship. It's just the way it is.
So... are you willing to have this fight with ANY potential partner, every 8 years? Or, are you willing to maybe find a middle ground, respect private voting, and focus on individual values like abortion, gun control, school choice, religion, how to raise kids, etc etc, rather than just the political party? That is what you must figure out.
The core values will matter more than just political party. Trust in that. You could both have the same value, but disagree on which candidate best supports your shared value. That is ok! Do NOT die on that hill, because again, that comes up every 4, realistically 8 years. It would suck to re-determine your relationships every 8 years based on who some rich political parties & special interest groups managed to nominate as a candidate. I mean... the proof is in front of you: did anyone WANT Biden?? I mean, really??? There were so many better qualified candidates.
She doesn’t know how lucky she is!!
Hope she ends it for both their sakes. I've wasted too much time with women like this.
Advice: Educate yourself. Read. Learn History.
Or simply admit that putting fourth effort is the real deal breaker.
Loose 40 pounds, eat more healthy! Shower more often!