Women want men who are masculine, and men want women that are feminine. Ironically feminism has done much to convince women that femininity is a bad thing, and they don't know how to attract or keep a man beyond just what she has to offer sexually.
Men want compassion, kindness, a complementary attitude. A woman to a man is like the cornerman for a Boxer. If I'm getting my ass beat out there, clean me up. If I'm handling my business, towel me off and give me some water. At the end of the day I'm taking the shots and I can handle it, this is my life. What I need from you is to help me win.
One of the best posts I ever seen on the internet, talking about how career women think they can attract men by bragging about their career accomplishments. A man responds with this:
My entire life, I was taught to never expect to be given anything and that it's my lot in life to be my family's bread winner. So I worked my butt off, took care of all my needs and planned to have to take care of my family's needs as well. Having accomplished all that, the only thing I can't do for myself is kiss myself on the forehead and tell me I'm loved. Compassion and sex are all I ever needed from a woman. It's not that I don't value your accomplishments or that I feel threatened by them. It's just that all I need is love. If you can bring money to the table, great, but I'll take kindness and affection over money and power any day.. That's all I ever wanted. So that's all I've ever looked for.
My girl is an engineer, she makes more money than I do. I don't give a living fuck, what makes me love her so much is that when I get home from a day working in construction she doesn't start screeching at me, or nagging, or any other ridiculous bullshit. She's genuinely happy to see me, gives me a hug and a kiss, tells me she loves me, and then waits to talk to me until I've had time to decompress after the day; get cleaned up and have a beer.
That's what I can't do for myself, that's all I ever wanted, it's all I ever asked for. I know now it's all I need. I say all of this because, I can guarantee you right now. If this woman would care less about trying to act like a man with how much she works, thinking that her "independence" would attract a man, and instead on being a nice and pleasant person to be around, a woman that adds to a man's life instead of detracts from it; she would never have a problem keeping a man around.
Women want men who are masculine, and men want women that are feminine. Ironically feminism has done much to convince women that femininity is a bad thing, and they don't know how to attract or keep a man beyond just what she has to offer sexually.
Men want compassion, kindness, a complementary attitude. A woman to a man is like the cornerman for a Boxer. If I'm getting my ass beat out there, clean me up. If I'm handling my business, towel me off and give me some water. At the end of the day I'm taking the shots and I can handle it, this is my life. What I need from you is to help me win.
One of the best posts I ever seen on the internet, talking about how career women think they can attract men by bragging about their career accomplishments. A man responds with this:
My entire life, I was taught to never expect to be given anything and that it's my lot in life to be my family's bread winner. So I worked my butt off, took care of all my needs and planned to have to take care of my family's needs as well. Having accomplished all that, the only thing I can't do for myself is kiss myself on the forehead and tell me I'm loved. Compassion and sex are all I ever needed from a woman. It's not that I don't value your accomplishments or that I feel threatened by them. It's just that all I need is love. If you can bring money to the table, great, but I'll take kindness and affection over money and power any day.. That's all I ever wanted. So that's all I've ever looked for.
My girl is an engineer, she makes more money than I do. I don't give a living fuck, what makes me love her so much is that when I get home from a day working in construction she doesn't start screeching at me, or nagging, or any other ridiculous bullshit. She's genuinely happy to see me, gives me a hug and a kiss, tells me she loves me, and then waits to talk to me until I've had time to decompress after the day; get cleaned up and have a beer.
That's what I can't do for myself, that's all I ever wanted, it's all I ever asked for. I know now it's all I need. I say all of this because, I can guarantee you right now. If this woman would care less about trying to act like a man with how much she works, thinking that her "independence" would attract a man, and instead on being a nice and pleasant person to be around, a woman that adds to a man's life instead of detracts from it; she would never have a problem keeping a man around.
Wait until she gives you children. You'll love her more.
From your lips to God's ears, brother.
That's one of the most beautiful posts I've read. Saved. You're a legend, and she's a keeper.