be careful with this one, because men and women love in different ways. You need to be sure you mean her love for you is as much as your love for her, and not that she loves you in the same way. The way that a man loves a woman is a protective love, and the only woman in a man's life who will ever love you like that is your mother. The way that a woman loves a man is respectful love, which is the kind of love that you have for your mother. If you expect a woman to love you the same way your mother did you will be eternally disappointed and will come to resent many woman who did truly and genuinely love you anyway. If you ever try to love a woman in the same way that you love your mother you will cause her to become disgusted with you. Women often say "I don't want to be his mother" and this is what they mean, when a man is confused about the different ways that men and women experience and share love it creeps them out when you try to treat a woman the same as your mother.
Yes and I completely understand what you're talking about there
In that regard I cannot give you much advice because western women these days are just legitimately broken in a lot of respects. I almost always get a large number of downvotes any time I say it, probably from ladypedes here, but my advice is to try a girl from a family of immigrants or if you travel out of the country then finding a girl in another country. We talk a lot about redpilling on this forum, from a lot of people who did not grow up conservative children of conservative parents having a Wile E. Coyote moment in the real world and becoming red pilled. Well generally for women growing up in the West it's a similar thing, unless you are a rare woman who was raised right, the odds that you're a shitty broad that isn't worth anybody's time is astronomical, and leads to the incredibly common experience of what you're talking about here, Zekk.
Which is why I advise child of immigrants women or foreign women, they grew up in a different culture that has more respect for the role the man plays within the household and is able to do the things that I have talked about in this thread. It's just generally less of a headache trying to do than sift through all the white women to find one that isn't poisoned. Remember though that all women are crazy so you just need to find what kind of crazy you're acceptable with living with. My girl is Colombian and her crazy is that it takes very little to set her off but as long as she isn't yelling at me then when she goes all Latin on something I get hard as a rock. If she had a bad day at work and she isn't in the mood for sex she knows better than to tell me about her day because as soon as she starts ranting about whatever happened I'm on her like white on rice in a glass of milk on a paper plate in a snowstorm. That's the kind of thing I'm talking about, finding the crazy that works for you.
Anyway I hope any part of this rambling nonsense helped.
Well if you're getting old enough you might be able to land a girl with daddy issues that's really into the whole DDLG thing, but I don't know if that's your style
I'm a freak and got lucky with my girl, I can readily admit that shit. At any rate, God be with you in your quest brother.
be careful with this one, because men and women love in different ways. You need to be sure you mean her love for you is as much as your love for her, and not that she loves you in the same way. The way that a man loves a woman is a protective love, and the only woman in a man's life who will ever love you like that is your mother. The way that a woman loves a man is respectful love, which is the kind of love that you have for your mother. If you expect a woman to love you the same way your mother did you will be eternally disappointed and will come to resent many woman who did truly and genuinely love you anyway. If you ever try to love a woman in the same way that you love your mother you will cause her to become disgusted with you. Women often say "I don't want to be his mother" and this is what they mean, when a man is confused about the different ways that men and women experience and share love it creeps them out when you try to treat a woman the same as your mother.
It goes like this
Man -> Woman -> Child
Man <- Woman <- Child
Yes and I completely understand what you're talking about there
In that regard I cannot give you much advice because western women these days are just legitimately broken in a lot of respects. I almost always get a large number of downvotes any time I say it, probably from ladypedes here, but my advice is to try a girl from a family of immigrants or if you travel out of the country then finding a girl in another country. We talk a lot about redpilling on this forum, from a lot of people who did not grow up conservative children of conservative parents having a Wile E. Coyote moment in the real world and becoming red pilled. Well generally for women growing up in the West it's a similar thing, unless you are a rare woman who was raised right, the odds that you're a shitty broad that isn't worth anybody's time is astronomical, and leads to the incredibly common experience of what you're talking about here, Zekk.
Which is why I advise child of immigrants women or foreign women, they grew up in a different culture that has more respect for the role the man plays within the household and is able to do the things that I have talked about in this thread. It's just generally less of a headache trying to do than sift through all the white women to find one that isn't poisoned. Remember though that all women are crazy so you just need to find what kind of crazy you're acceptable with living with. My girl is Colombian and her crazy is that it takes very little to set her off but as long as she isn't yelling at me then when she goes all Latin on something I get hard as a rock. If she had a bad day at work and she isn't in the mood for sex she knows better than to tell me about her day because as soon as she starts ranting about whatever happened I'm on her like white on rice in a glass of milk on a paper plate in a snowstorm. That's the kind of thing I'm talking about, finding the crazy that works for you.
Anyway I hope any part of this rambling nonsense helped.
Well if you're getting old enough you might be able to land a girl with daddy issues that's really into the whole DDLG thing, but I don't know if that's your style
I'm a freak and got lucky with my girl, I can readily admit that shit. At any rate, God be with you in your quest brother.