The outcome of the upcoming election might be the least of your problem if you don’t have “the talk” soon. Nothing wrong with a spouse who doesn’t share your political views, but the racist thing looks like a showstopper.
Sorry, that's more hardcore. My wife is liberal in the old school steel workers sense. She is at least generally trying to do moral things, but just a lot of cognitive dissonance. No attending protests, no BLM shirts. I kind make it emotionally not worth her while and I am not afraid to throw in a Catholic teaching here or there to make it clear.
In your case it sounds like this wasn't nipped in the bud, well before BLM and TDS. Marriage fidelity and a wife at least trying to honor and respect her husband should be established from the beginning.
She's allowed to be wrong, but it needs to be kept in the right priority. She shouldn't want to do things that will intentionally piss you off and, yes, likewise you should avoid that as well.
Man up and regulate your family. If you don't learn how to stand up and communicate, this and your future relationships are toast and you'll never be happy.
If you don't have kids, find a new one asap
Ditto
You have my sincere sympathy.
The outcome of the upcoming election might be the least of your problem if you don’t have “the talk” soon. Nothing wrong with a spouse who doesn’t share your political views, but the racist thing looks like a showstopper.
She's probably donating a fuck ton of money to BLM behind your back too
And taking the BBC in the butt too.
Dude get out.
Good luck!
Any wife who circumvents your decision making without consulting you should be kicked to the curb. You are in a partnership, not her employee.
She better be reallllly good at something to have been worth marrying and stay married to...
Sorry, that's more hardcore. My wife is liberal in the old school steel workers sense. She is at least generally trying to do moral things, but just a lot of cognitive dissonance. No attending protests, no BLM shirts. I kind make it emotionally not worth her while and I am not afraid to throw in a Catholic teaching here or there to make it clear.
In your case it sounds like this wasn't nipped in the bud, well before BLM and TDS. Marriage fidelity and a wife at least trying to honor and respect her husband should be established from the beginning.
She's allowed to be wrong, but it needs to be kept in the right priority. She shouldn't want to do things that will intentionally piss you off and, yes, likewise you should avoid that as well.
I'll pray for your marriage.
I don't get how you do it, I've lost friends for speaking my mind and being based. Hell I get in to with strangers a lot in the real world
Man up and regulate your family. If you don't learn how to stand up and communicate, this and your future relationships are toast and you'll never be happy.
Cut your losses, man. Get the house on the market and get out of that mess. Do it for your own healthy, welfare, and happiness.
Bros before hoes dude. Not sure how this could possibly slip past the most mundane pre-marriage vetting?
Recently I spoke with an ex until she bought up, "The people next to our vacation rental had a super spreader party and I was so ..."
Sounds like a fundamentally lethal flaw in ideology.
1989 Tiananmen Square massacre