The good thing about kids and even young adults is their ability to adapt and change...it’s not too late. I watch outcomes of people who listen to self-help people to a lesser degree and have success, but also more realistic and effect results from Jordan Peterson and even Dave Ramsey (for finance, which is a big part of life). The biggest hurdle is to stop acting like a victim (even if you are). and stop blaming others for everything (even if others are to blame sometimes). It’s about controlling and changing what you can.