Humans aren't perfect though. They can be incited by circumstances to do things they ordinarily wouldn't. Not that that makes it ok, but I don't think it's fair to judge everyone at their worst.
It's not bad to forgive them, if they ask. That's a good thing. It could very well be bad, to forgive them if they don't first ask; that can be Enabling.
Humans aren't perfect though. They can be incited by circumstances to do things they ordinarily wouldn't. Not that that makes it ok, but I don't think it's fair to judge everyone at their worst.
It's not bad to forgive them, if they ask. That's a good thing. It could very well be bad, to forgive them if they don't first ask; that can be Enabling.