Afraid to ask a girl out? Oh no! Trust me, I know girls...you have nothing to fear if you go in as someone being nice and starting a conversation. You donβt have to have the attitude that every girl you talk to you are planning to ask out. Youβd be surprised how many girls are hoping you come over and say hello.
It's not even a stranger. Know her since trade school (we both finished our apprenticeship this year). And we even have dinner from time to time (however, together with some other friends).
Long story short I started to have a crush on her and want to invite her for dinner (just the two of us) - in order to check whether the chemistry is right.
Afraid to ask a girl out? Oh no! Trust me, I know girls...you have nothing to fear if you go in as someone being nice and starting a conversation.
Well, I am even too afraid to ask a girl out - still much to learn :D
Faint hearts never won fair maidens.
When you start off dating, you think you know what you want. If you do it right, then you will learn what you specifically need in a relationship, which helps define what a successful partnership looks like for you.
But that learning process can also easily look like simply a string of failed relationships, because it is, but it can also be so much more than that, if you are willing to do the work.
I don't blame you for feeling this way. It's easy to get be scared of getting hurt.
Freud said "we are never so hopelessly unhappy as when we lose love", which I think is spot-on correct and better said than I ever could, fwiw. Your fears are not unfounded or irrational. You've good reason for being scared.
You do have much to learn. But relationships are the kind of thing you can't learn without practice. It is only through multiple relationships that you begin to see patterns emerge that help you determine the changes you need to make. That education can't even begin until you enter the ring.
Once you hear the third girlfriend complain about you doing the exact same thing that the first two hated too, it gets harder to blame them for it, which is a good thing, IMO.
That's when the hard work of tearing yourself down in order to rebuild a better version of yourself really begins, IMO. It can be messy, is always painful, and is not easy.
But none of the slings and arrows of battle can ever approach inflicting the pain of regret from missed opportunity. I promise you that my friend.
Your first relationships will fail. Most likely miserably and spectacularly. And that is perfectly ok. It is only through our mistakes than we truly learn.
Just don't wait for the perfect one to come along. In reality that would be the worst thing in the world to happen to you, IMO, as you're not yet ready for her anyway.
I've been extremely blessed to be married to an amazing woman who is the love of my life.
But I also got married once before, and divorced in less than a year, so I do have a bit of experience under my belt, yes.
Your comments just made me think they were something my good friend would say, who is turning 40 years old this month and is still "getting ready". I don't want that to happen to you.
Not that it will, just explaining the reason for the in-depth response from some dude you don't know from English Bob.
Good to hear and wish both of you a wonderful life (especially the next four under Trump). In order to find the perfect woman for oneself one has to act. Assume neither your ex-wife nor your wife appeared suddenly. You had to "work" for it. And I assume you learnt a lot from your first marriage.
Your comments (in addition to other comments from other fellow pedes) definetly motivated me to invite this girl for dinner. And it doesn't matter what happens or if she is the one - it is important to act and to learn on the way.
And it doesn't matter what happens or if she is the one - it is important to act and to learn on the way.
You're well on your way then my friend.
The best "advice" I can give you is women typically tell you everything you need to know with their body language or nonverbal communication. Most men are oblivious to it, IME. If you can learn to try to read those clues and trust your instincts, you will be well ahead of your competition. But it sounds like you've got a pretty good head start on them already though.
I wish you the very best of luck on your journey. Thank you for your kind words.
Congrats! 2 years in for me now. Best decision I ever made, can't believe I was brainwashed against marriage for so long. It won't always be easy, but you got a great teammate now!
Congratulations! Married 19 years here. Remember you will have AMAZING days and days harder than you can even imagine - but you can get through it all together! β€οΈ
Have sex minimum once a week. Pick a day and schedule it. Lame I Know and probably not On your radar now but 10 years in youβll be so happy you made this part of your life.
Never judge your spouse against perfection judge her against the misery of being alone. We are at the age where the couples that arenβt going to make it are starting to split and the single divorced people staring down life alone in their 40s is enough to make us 100% certain neither has any flaws.
"Children are like arrows in a quiver. Happy is the man whose quiver is full." Proverbs.
Think of the beautiful minds you will send out into this world with the covenant you made today! We revel in your joy!
Congrats! Now get busy making a new generation of pedes!
Twenty.
Congrats! Remember that it's a partnership and that if you both take on 60% of the total effort you'll have a happy marriage.
Good advice
I always say this too. Give 60 expect 40. Much better than a 50/50 relationship. Only of it is mutual tho.
Good advice.
Yay!! And what a handsome groom you made. Congrats! Wishing you and your bride a lifetime of happiness and many, many patriotic little pedes.
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The no shoes or socks with the Capri-cut pants is a bold look, but I feel like Peps somehow pulls it off.
Step aside, Adam Crigler. Pepe's got this.
Good advice! Seems like you already have experience ;) Well, I am even too afraid to ask a girl out - still much to learn :D
Afraid to ask a girl out? Oh no! Trust me, I know girls...you have nothing to fear if you go in as someone being nice and starting a conversation. You donβt have to have the attitude that every girl you talk to you are planning to ask out. Youβd be surprised how many girls are hoping you come over and say hello.
It's not even a stranger. Know her since trade school (we both finished our apprenticeship this year). And we even have dinner from time to time (however, together with some other friends).
Long story short I started to have a crush on her and want to invite her for dinner (just the two of us) - in order to check whether the chemistry is right.
Thanks! I will keep that in mind :)
Invite her to dinner. The reward far outweighs the risk.
Remember: Fortune favors the bold.
It's as easy as that.
Thanks for your kind comment. This helps!
Faint hearts never won fair maidens.
When you start off dating, you think you know what you want. If you do it right, then you will learn what you specifically need in a relationship, which helps define what a successful partnership looks like for you.
But that learning process can also easily look like simply a string of failed relationships, because it is, but it can also be so much more than that, if you are willing to do the work.
I don't blame you for feeling this way. It's easy to get be scared of getting hurt. Freud said "we are never so hopelessly unhappy as when we lose love", which I think is spot-on correct and better said than I ever could, fwiw. Your fears are not unfounded or irrational. You've good reason for being scared.
You do have much to learn. But relationships are the kind of thing you can't learn without practice. It is only through multiple relationships that you begin to see patterns emerge that help you determine the changes you need to make. That education can't even begin until you enter the ring.
Once you hear the third girlfriend complain about you doing the exact same thing that the first two hated too, it gets harder to blame them for it, which is a good thing, IMO.
That's when the hard work of tearing yourself down in order to rebuild a better version of yourself really begins, IMO. It can be messy, is always painful, and is not easy.
But none of the slings and arrows of battle can ever approach inflicting the pain of regret from missed opportunity. I promise you that my friend.
Your first relationships will fail. Most likely miserably and spectacularly. And that is perfectly ok. It is only through our mistakes than we truly learn.
Just don't wait for the perfect one to come along. In reality that would be the worst thing in the world to happen to you, IMO, as you're not yet ready for her anyway.
Good luck to you regardless.
Thanks for the in-depth thoughts, you are obviously right. It's better to jump in at the deep end and make this new experiences.
That's true & everyone has to find their way to overcome them.
Your comment is a great motivation and will keep it in mind when I ask that specific girl out in a few days.
Thank you.
Sounds like you have had a good amount of experience already.
I've been extremely blessed to be married to an amazing woman who is the love of my life.
But I also got married once before, and divorced in less than a year, so I do have a bit of experience under my belt, yes.
Your comments just made me think they were something my good friend would say, who is turning 40 years old this month and is still "getting ready". I don't want that to happen to you.
Not that it will, just explaining the reason for the in-depth response from some dude you don't know from English Bob.
Good to hear and wish both of you a wonderful life (especially the next four under Trump). In order to find the perfect woman for oneself one has to act. Assume neither your ex-wife nor your wife appeared suddenly. You had to "work" for it. And I assume you learnt a lot from your first marriage.
Your comments (in addition to other comments from other fellow pedes) definetly motivated me to invite this girl for dinner. And it doesn't matter what happens or if she is the one - it is important to act and to learn on the way.
Thank you.
You're well on your way then my friend.
The best "advice" I can give you is women typically tell you everything you need to know with their body language or nonverbal communication. Most men are oblivious to it, IME. If you can learn to try to read those clues and trust your instincts, you will be well ahead of your competition. But it sounds like you've got a pretty good head start on them already though.
I wish you the very best of luck on your journey. Thank you for your kind words.
Best Wishes!
MAGA and KAG to the happy couple!
Awesome-CONGRATULATIONS!
Congrats, fren! You have a long, hard, rewarding road ahead of you. Work through the tough parts, it's worth fighting for!
Congrats! 2 years in for me now. Best decision I ever made, can't believe I was brainwashed against marriage for so long. It won't always be easy, but you got a great teammate now!
What did you believe before and what changed your mind, pede?
Congrats! raises glass here's to a happy married life, as long as you keep the spouse happy
Awesome! :)
Congratulations! Don't forget to vote.
Congratulations! Married 19 years here. Remember you will have AMAZING days and days harder than you can even imagine - but you can get through it all together! β€οΈ
Was the best decision of my life when I tied the knot.
Congratulations! May you have decades of happiness Keeping America Great!
Congrats. Marriage is consistent work that both need to perform in order to increase longevity and make it flourish.
Make pancakes on Sundays
Never skip a Sunday.
Have sex minimum once a week. Pick a day and schedule it. Lame I Know and probably not On your radar now but 10 years in youβll be so happy you made this part of your life.
Never judge your spouse against perfection judge her against the misery of being alone. We are at the age where the couples that arenβt going to make it are starting to split and the single divorced people staring down life alone in their 40s is enough to make us 100% certain neither has any flaws.
Best of wishes to your bride and you.
You look good in your tux . blessings to you and your wife.
Congrats, go make some MAGa kids.
Congratulations! Always try to bring out the best in one another! Go make a patriot.
Congrats my friend! Wishing you a long, happy marriage!
Congrats you handsome Pepe! Wishing you great joy and many blessings.
"Children are like arrows in a quiver. Happy is the man whose quiver is full." Proverbs. Think of the beautiful minds you will send out into this world with the covenant you made today! We revel in your joy!
Congrats!! May your tribe increase.
CONGRATS!!!!!!!! Lots of baby pedes!!
Congrats!
Congratulations!
Congratulations to you both
Congrats!
Hopefully two conservatories made in heaven cause that will last, congrats
Lord bless you and your wife! May He bless you with lots of little based pedes!
Congratulations Mr. & Mrs. Pede! I pray blessings & happiness over your union!
You look handsome, pede. Congrats!
Congrats! Good luck and good health to you!
Congratulations! May your new union of love glorify the almighty!
Best wishes to the two of you!
Congrats and may you and have many happy years together
You can be happy or you can be right. (You should both abide by this rule.)
Mazeltov!
Congratulations! Year 12 for me, and still as strong as ever. Keep that girl happy!
Congratulations!!! Hope you two find happiness and peace for the rest of your lives together!
Congratulations!!!!!
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