Never skip a Sunday.

Have sex minimum once a week. Pick a day and schedule it. Lame I Know and probably not On your radar now but 10 years in you’ll be so happy you made this part of your life.

Never judge your spouse against perfection judge her against the misery of being alone. We are at the age where the couples that aren’t going to make it are starting to split and the single divorced people staring down life alone in their 40s is enough to make us 100% certain neither has any flaws.