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Fabian 1 point ago +1 / -0

Thanks for the in-depth thoughts, you are obviously right. It's better to jump in at the deep end and make this new experiences.

Your fears are not unfounded or irrational.

That's true & everyone has to find their way to overcome them.

Your comment is a great motivation and will keep it in mind when I ask that specific girl out in a few days.

Good luck to you regardless.

Thank you.

Sounds like you have had a good amount of experience already.

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jive-ass-turkey 2 points ago +2 / -0

I've been extremely blessed to be married to an amazing woman who is the love of my life.

But I also got married once before, and divorced in less than a year, so I do have a bit of experience under my belt, yes.

Your comments just made me think they were something my good friend would say, who is turning 40 years old this month and is still "getting ready". I don't want that to happen to you.

Not that it will, just explaining the reason for the in-depth response from some dude you don't know from English Bob.

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Fabian 2 points ago +2 / -0

Good to hear and wish both of you a wonderful life (especially the next four under Trump). In order to find the perfect woman for oneself one has to act. Assume neither your ex-wife nor your wife appeared suddenly. You had to "work" for it. And I assume you learnt a lot from your first marriage.

Your comments (in addition to other comments from other fellow pedes) definetly motivated me to invite this girl for dinner. And it doesn't matter what happens or if she is the one - it is important to act and to learn on the way.

Thank you.

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jive-ass-turkey 2 points ago +2 / -0

And it doesn't matter what happens or if she is the one - it is important to act and to learn on the way.

You're well on your way then my friend.

The best "advice" I can give you is women typically tell you everything you need to know with their body language or nonverbal communication. Most men are oblivious to it, IME. If you can learn to try to read those clues and trust your instincts, you will be well ahead of your competition. But it sounds like you've got a pretty good head start on them already though.

I wish you the very best of luck on your journey. Thank you for your kind words.