I am not as well versed in the bible as I should be (and that is something I am working on) but I would bet there are examples of strong wise Godly women as well as strong Godly men. Seems like a mature, confident man would want a woman who was strong and smart and a true partner to help him get through this life and raise good children. I don't think this Bible text reflects that type of a life partner. Now a weak and insecure man may want a woman as described in the text.